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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 148622" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Hi Jane,</p><p></p><p>Please don't feel stupid. A lot of what MB said made sense. You were enjoying the new relationship with her. There is no reason that has to be over. however, you have a right to feel betrayed, and you have a right to confront her on it. </p><p>Maybe she did grow up enough to make baby steps and have normal conversations with you, even with boyfriend in her life, but still has not grown up enough to be truthful about boyfriend with you. So, like MB said, compartmentalize. You can continue to have your normal conversations with her, enjoy talking with her, but like you said, no more sending money. Unless you choose to. Not if you feel pressured to or if she calls crying wolf again. And make that known to her now, while she is doing well. </p><p></p><p>Hugs, I know this hurts. But I think that maybe difficult child is just trying to do the best she can.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 148622, member: 3647"] Hi Jane, Please don't feel stupid. A lot of what MB said made sense. You were enjoying the new relationship with her. There is no reason that has to be over. however, you have a right to feel betrayed, and you have a right to confront her on it. Maybe she did grow up enough to make baby steps and have normal conversations with you, even with boyfriend in her life, but still has not grown up enough to be truthful about boyfriend with you. So, like MB said, compartmentalize. You can continue to have your normal conversations with her, enjoy talking with her, but like you said, no more sending money. Unless you choose to. Not if you feel pressured to or if she calls crying wolf again. And make that known to her now, while she is doing well. Hugs, I know this hurts. But I think that maybe difficult child is just trying to do the best she can. [/QUOTE]
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