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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 148633" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>Sorry for the pain she has caused. I too hoped at some point I could trust my difficult child, but now I only offer love, give an opinion if asked and send money if I feel like it. My difficult child stopped asking on this point even though I know he needs money. </p><p>Don't know if confronting her with questions of how long has this been going on......she would just lie. Guess I would approach it with the facts.....I see boyfriend signed for the package so he must know where you live. Drop it at that (I know that will be difficult) and move away. If you want a relationship with her that would be my suggestion. She is going to be with him whether you want it or not.....If she is not asking for money let her solve her own situational problems....</p><p>If and when she asks for money, a decisive "No, I will not be sending any money" would be the brief answer and don't offer ANY EXPLANATION.</p><p> </p><p>No use in getting everybody worked up over the whole mess even though you feel used, it won't change or effect her. She was telling you what you wanted to hear, so be prepared for untruth in her statments and you won't be disappointed....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 148633, member: 53"] Sorry for the pain she has caused. I too hoped at some point I could trust my difficult child, but now I only offer love, give an opinion if asked and send money if I feel like it. My difficult child stopped asking on this point even though I know he needs money. Don't know if confronting her with questions of how long has this been going on......she would just lie. Guess I would approach it with the facts.....I see boyfriend signed for the package so he must know where you live. Drop it at that (I know that will be difficult) and move away. If you want a relationship with her that would be my suggestion. She is going to be with him whether you want it or not.....If she is not asking for money let her solve her own situational problems.... If and when she asks for money, a decisive "No, I will not be sending any money" would be the brief answer and don't offer ANY EXPLANATION. No use in getting everybody worked up over the whole mess even though you feel used, it won't change or effect her. She was telling you what you wanted to hear, so be prepared for untruth in her statments and you won't be disappointed.... [/QUOTE]
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