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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 148705" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Hopefully your daughter will wake up one day and so no more to being used. As badly as you feel, at least you know the money will benefit your daughter. Not to the extent you want since he's in the picture, but it does give her food and shelter. As you said, she is willing to work fulltime and be responsible. She may (??) not be honest when it comes to discussing her boyfriend with you, she does have some positive qualities going for her.</p><p> </p><p>A lot of her lies remind of my daughter and her boyfriend. It was easier to lie about anything to do with him than admit to me and herself what a loser she was dating. I found out after we moved here just how badly he was treating her (borderline rape -- she said then acceded, verbal abuse and finally actually hitting her). The stories she was telling me far from that -- he'd changed, was actually looking for a job, presently working his uncle, etc. The only thing that was true was that he had changed, just not for the better.</p><p> </p><p>Honestly, given the circumstances as you knew them, I wouldn't have hesitated to give her the money, especially since you felt it was hers anyway. As I said, it is helping her, not just him. I think you did the right thing in giving her these funds. Just let her know there will be nothing in the future no matter what the circumstances. It is time for her to stand on her own two feet, just as it is for my daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 148705, member: 3626"] Hopefully your daughter will wake up one day and so no more to being used. As badly as you feel, at least you know the money will benefit your daughter. Not to the extent you want since he's in the picture, but it does give her food and shelter. As you said, she is willing to work fulltime and be responsible. She may (??) not be honest when it comes to discussing her boyfriend with you, she does have some positive qualities going for her. A lot of her lies remind of my daughter and her boyfriend. It was easier to lie about anything to do with him than admit to me and herself what a loser she was dating. I found out after we moved here just how badly he was treating her (borderline rape -- she said then acceded, verbal abuse and finally actually hitting her). The stories she was telling me far from that -- he'd changed, was actually looking for a job, presently working his uncle, etc. The only thing that was true was that he had changed, just not for the better. Honestly, given the circumstances as you knew them, I wouldn't have hesitated to give her the money, especially since you felt it was hers anyway. As I said, it is helping her, not just him. I think you did the right thing in giving her these funds. Just let her know there will be nothing in the future no matter what the circumstances. It is time for her to stand on her own two feet, just as it is for my daughter. [/QUOTE]
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