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<blockquote data-quote="karen1316" data-source="post: 434460" data-attributes="member: 12120"><p>thanks for replying I dont know where to start but here goes yes both her bio dad and I have mental health issues and I'm not saying that because she was abused that this is all where it stemed from but it is where all her problems started as she was early at all stages of devolpment prior. her bio dad never was treated for what I believe to be some form of mental ilness as he was abusive both mentally and pyhically to me. I have mental health issues with severe depression and even more severe anxiety. prior to her abuse i was a very differant person and my mental health has been downhill since i have had to deal with her stuff so much that i sometimes don't get to mine as often as i should.she is on celexa ans abilify and has had every test known to man. she also may have ADD and she has social problems.she will not listen at home or school she has been suspended for 2 days this last week and 1 day each the 2 weeks prior as her refusal to listen is getting her into trouble. she calls people whores and has spit on them at school and within the past 3 months has been involved in 3 fights at home she tells us to shut up and not talk to her when shes told no or we try to ground her she will cry,scream, beg and try to plead until you get to the point of wanting to smack her which is part of the reason she's at a shelter until tuesday night then back home until we decide what to do next.when i spoke to her on the phone i asked her if she thought she wants to change and she said i don't know and i was shocked because i stupidly thought that maybe this would wake her up but i guess not as she said she was having fun and i feel so sick to my stomach because sadly that is not a normal response or the one i expected but i still can't help myself from believing all this i am so so sad because i am very afraid she will never get better there is such a great,loving,and funny child in there somewhere and i want her back. also i have 8 year old twins who show no sign of any mental health issues but were in counseling for a while after my daughter tried to abuse them i called child protection twice and they told her that the next time they got a call they were going to lock her up that was 3 years ago now but my kids had therapy and they are doing good and me and my fiance my daughters stepdad are concerned that we can't parent our twins like we should with there sister being so out of control.even with all this i still feel so sad and hurt and like a bad mom that i will probly have to send her away</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="karen1316, post: 434460, member: 12120"] thanks for replying I dont know where to start but here goes yes both her bio dad and I have mental health issues and I'm not saying that because she was abused that this is all where it stemed from but it is where all her problems started as she was early at all stages of devolpment prior. her bio dad never was treated for what I believe to be some form of mental ilness as he was abusive both mentally and pyhically to me. I have mental health issues with severe depression and even more severe anxiety. prior to her abuse i was a very differant person and my mental health has been downhill since i have had to deal with her stuff so much that i sometimes don't get to mine as often as i should.she is on celexa ans abilify and has had every test known to man. she also may have ADD and she has social problems.she will not listen at home or school she has been suspended for 2 days this last week and 1 day each the 2 weeks prior as her refusal to listen is getting her into trouble. she calls people whores and has spit on them at school and within the past 3 months has been involved in 3 fights at home she tells us to shut up and not talk to her when shes told no or we try to ground her she will cry,scream, beg and try to plead until you get to the point of wanting to smack her which is part of the reason she's at a shelter until tuesday night then back home until we decide what to do next.when i spoke to her on the phone i asked her if she thought she wants to change and she said i don't know and i was shocked because i stupidly thought that maybe this would wake her up but i guess not as she said she was having fun and i feel so sick to my stomach because sadly that is not a normal response or the one i expected but i still can't help myself from believing all this i am so so sad because i am very afraid she will never get better there is such a great,loving,and funny child in there somewhere and i want her back. also i have 8 year old twins who show no sign of any mental health issues but were in counseling for a while after my daughter tried to abuse them i called child protection twice and they told her that the next time they got a call they were going to lock her up that was 3 years ago now but my kids had therapy and they are doing good and me and my fiance my daughters stepdad are concerned that we can't parent our twins like we should with there sister being so out of control.even with all this i still feel so sad and hurt and like a bad mom that i will probly have to send her away [/QUOTE]
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