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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 734369" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>I am so sorry for what are you going through and the pain this is causing you. Your son sounds like he is an angry young man, and of course when there are problems they blame us all. Sometimes, I think we need to step way back and change the dance. By you continuing to contact him he has the power over you and knowingly uses it to be disrespectful, hurtful and quite frankly abusive. People treat us the way we allow them to treat us. Do not allow this to happen as it wont stop. I would stop contact and let him contact me. Set the boundaries with him. I know now that you think you will never see him again, but chances are quite likely you will. Please get some help and support for YOU. You have another son who is in the picture and I am sure is heartbroken by seeing how much you hurt. You need to take care of you right now. Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 734369, member: 20373"] I am so sorry for what are you going through and the pain this is causing you. Your son sounds like he is an angry young man, and of course when there are problems they blame us all. Sometimes, I think we need to step way back and change the dance. By you continuing to contact him he has the power over you and knowingly uses it to be disrespectful, hurtful and quite frankly abusive. People treat us the way we allow them to treat us. Do not allow this to happen as it wont stop. I would stop contact and let him contact me. Set the boundaries with him. I know now that you think you will never see him again, but chances are quite likely you will. Please get some help and support for YOU. You have another son who is in the picture and I am sure is heartbroken by seeing how much you hurt. You need to take care of you right now. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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