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toughlovin
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I am struggling with the blues today.... we went to a social thing for my daughters class last night and it was just kind of weird.... the people we tend to know weren't there and it was one of those kind of awkward social situations. I left feeling like Geez I need to get a more interesting vibrant life. I just feel like so much of my thought and head time is tied up with worry about my difficult child son. We haven't heard from him since he said he would call and I just wish we would.... but I know that I need to find ways to move on with MY life and develop my interests etc. Don't get me wrong I have a full life but right now I just feel too focused on him in my head. I think I have done a good job in stepping back from his point of view.... but he still spends too much time in my head.
So how do the rest of you with older kids, who have also been going through this for years get the worry and thougths of them out of your head?
TL
So how do the rest of you with older kids, who have also been going through this for years get the worry and thougths of them out of your head?
TL