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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 535346" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>TL I want to make clear that it's not that I wish I had never adopted a child at all. Just like you I cannot imagine my life without difficult child in it. One of the things that is hardest for me to imagine is her not having any contact with us or living in such desperate conditions that we cannot reach her. It would break my heart and I cannot imagine coming to the end of my life not knowing she will be ok. I'm not sure I can say she has made me a better person because when I think back over some of the really horrible times we have been through I don't think I did very well. I cried way too much and threatened and yelled and tried to make deals and sometimes just broke down in anger. I can say she has taught me the real meaning of unconditional love.</p><p></p><p>Am I sorry that difficult child came into my life? Absolutely not. I cannot imagine loving her any more than I do and I can say with all honestly that having both a biological and adopted child, the love is no different.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 535346, member: 59"] TL I want to make clear that it's not that I wish I had never adopted a child at all. Just like you I cannot imagine my life without difficult child in it. One of the things that is hardest for me to imagine is her not having any contact with us or living in such desperate conditions that we cannot reach her. It would break my heart and I cannot imagine coming to the end of my life not knowing she will be ok. I'm not sure I can say she has made me a better person because when I think back over some of the really horrible times we have been through I don't think I did very well. I cried way too much and threatened and yelled and tried to make deals and sometimes just broke down in anger. I can say she has taught me the real meaning of unconditional love. Am I sorry that difficult child came into my life? Absolutely not. I cannot imagine loving her any more than I do and I can say with all honestly that having both a biological and adopted child, the love is no different. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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