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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 192858" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Deni, Hex and Wendy have said pretty-much what I was going to say. It's great advice, and the payoff is immediate. Even if your difficult child hits the roof, you don't feel so beaten down by it if you're not sucked into the vortex.</p><p></p><p>It's true that with our difficult children, talking to them about the burdens we carry just doesn't sink in. Our burdens are just one more thing in our lives that's not all about them. They resent it and resent you for having to do it. They don't recognize that if you quit your job there would be no food or shelter, new clothes or whatever. They want 100&#37; of you.</p><p></p><p>But you need to hang onto your core so that you don't disappear completely.</p><p></p><p>Please be gentle with yourself and take whatever steps you have to, to get help for you.</p><p>Saying prayers and sending strength your way to get you through this very hard time.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 192858, member: 3907"] Deni, Hex and Wendy have said pretty-much what I was going to say. It's great advice, and the payoff is immediate. Even if your difficult child hits the roof, you don't feel so beaten down by it if you're not sucked into the vortex. It's true that with our difficult children, talking to them about the burdens we carry just doesn't sink in. Our burdens are just one more thing in our lives that's not all about them. They resent it and resent you for having to do it. They don't recognize that if you quit your job there would be no food or shelter, new clothes or whatever. They want 100% of you. But you need to hang onto your core so that you don't disappear completely. Please be gentle with yourself and take whatever steps you have to, to get help for you. Saying prayers and sending strength your way to get you through this very hard time. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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