difficult child just sent me a private message on Facebook. He said he's ok. He's in PA and supposedly already got a job fixing computers/iPhones. Not sure if that's true but who knows. He said he's thinking about staying there with a friend until he can save $ for an apartment. He asked if I can send his HS diploma and BC so he can get an ID. He also said that he feels bad about the past and that's he's sorry. That's the first time he's ever apologized and taken any responsibility for his part in things. Anyway, I'm happy I finally heard from him. I know he's ok. Maybe jail was the wake up call he needed. I know that by no means that this is the end of his gfgness but I'm relieved to have gotten through this latest round (the toughest one yet) and have come out a stronger, slightly more sane??? person!