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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 227343" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Jen, you need to make an appointment with a counsellor or therapist and take the financial discussion to that forum. Maybe they can help you each see a way to compromise - you contrib to bills (of course) and he lessens the maintenance gradually as he sees the partner and wife each have enough $$ to live. And it doesn't hurt kids to do with-o expensive bags, etc.... Sometimes it gives them a more realistic view of life. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, it is just a thought. I really strongly think a therapist is needed to get to the bottom of htis. It almost seems as though he is afraid the ex won't feed the kids if he doesn't pay such a high amt. And that isn't right. If that is the case then the kids need to live with-him. in my humble opinion here, but no kid of mine would live with someone I was afraid wuoldn't feed them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 227343, member: 1233"] Jen, you need to make an appointment with a counsellor or therapist and take the financial discussion to that forum. Maybe they can help you each see a way to compromise - you contrib to bills (of course) and he lessens the maintenance gradually as he sees the partner and wife each have enough $$ to live. And it doesn't hurt kids to do with-o expensive bags, etc.... Sometimes it gives them a more realistic view of life. Anyway, it is just a thought. I really strongly think a therapist is needed to get to the bottom of htis. It almost seems as though he is afraid the ex won't feed the kids if he doesn't pay such a high amt. And that isn't right. If that is the case then the kids need to live with-him. in my humble opinion here, but no kid of mine would live with someone I was afraid wuoldn't feed them. [/QUOTE]
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