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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 227358" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>thanks to you both. susie i agree yet you can't change how someone feels. i should be happy he's a good dad and supports his children, there are many out there as we know that do not. Yet this conversation has to be handled between us and in time the larger issues in therapy. I cannot force him to cut his ex off, that will never be me. these are my secret and hidden feelings to be honest regarding it.</p><p> </p><p>it's just rough, we can't move ahead until he lessens her. it kinda stinks. I also want nothing but the best for his kids, yet if we're going to spend alife together i feel as though we deserve as well to live nicer especially for a man who owns two restaraunts and makes a really nice living.</p><p> </p><p>it's just rough, his kids come here and complain about space issues and i almost want to laugh because the next day they return to their 5 bedroom house with a huge porch and backyard with pool, and swing sets and trampoline, etc. they have everything. i don't begrudge them for it yet they come here and complain that they dont have their own bedroom and it gets to both of us after a while. </p><p> </p><p>Their children though and at the end of the day their going to complain, yet to be quite frank their also spoiled children. my kids appreciate things so much more, so having less does teach a lesson or two at the end of the day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 227358, member: 4514"] thanks to you both. susie i agree yet you can't change how someone feels. i should be happy he's a good dad and supports his children, there are many out there as we know that do not. Yet this conversation has to be handled between us and in time the larger issues in therapy. I cannot force him to cut his ex off, that will never be me. these are my secret and hidden feelings to be honest regarding it. it's just rough, we can't move ahead until he lessens her. it kinda stinks. I also want nothing but the best for his kids, yet if we're going to spend alife together i feel as though we deserve as well to live nicer especially for a man who owns two restaraunts and makes a really nice living. it's just rough, his kids come here and complain about space issues and i almost want to laugh because the next day they return to their 5 bedroom house with a huge porch and backyard with pool, and swing sets and trampoline, etc. they have everything. i don't begrudge them for it yet they come here and complain that they dont have their own bedroom and it gets to both of us after a while. Their children though and at the end of the day their going to complain, yet to be quite frank their also spoiled children. my kids appreciate things so much more, so having less does teach a lesson or two at the end of the day. [/QUOTE]
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