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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 331288" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Shari, this girl is impacting wee's education. HE has a right to FAPE in the LRE, period. He also has the RIGHT to not be bullied. If an adult was doing this to an adult it would be a hostile work environment. This law is sometimes used in schools by creative lawyers. (Have seen it used here by husband's Easy Child fiance. she is a brilliant family law atty.)</p><p></p><p>You MUST put this in writing and go to the Superintendent of schools. I do not CARE how upset principal will be. Nor should you. The school policy is NOT being followed and your child is being HURT. Real, lasting damage is being done to wee. Just think about all the talk shows where kids who were bullied talk long after high school to the people who bullied them in elementary school. Will you LET wee be treated like this? Cause that is what is happening.</p><p></p><p>It is past time to hold their feet to the fire. Not sure what the girl's parents are doing to keep school from suspending her. Might be interesting to talk to other teachers and parents about her. This is not her first time. She shows too much skill to be new to it. USE this and the suspension wee got to hold the school's feet to the fire until the GIRL is PUNISHED. PERIOD. Wee must SEE that you stand up for him. 100% stand up and scream NO for him. It will be the best way to stop this and teach him to keep trusting you to care for this.</p><p></p><p>It IS hard. You want cooperation not fighting. Ask the principal why you should not file a complaint that wee was suspended and his education was harmed and his SOUL was harmed by the girl and then doubly harmed by the school suspending HIM and not punishing girl. The mainstream tteacher must also be held accountable. </p><p></p><p>in my opinion you will only truly help wee by standing up to the school to demand fair and legal treatment. You will only teach him to be a victim if you do not start protesting this abuse of him. I know you don't want that. And that conflict is really hard for you. I also know you do not want them to damage him. </p><p></p><p>Do you have wee see a therapist? I think it may be time to have someone who can evaluate how this is all harming him and help figure out ways to stop it. Someone who is an "expert" and can help you document all of this.</p><p></p><p>It is a shame the school doesn't really care about wee. Cause the mainstream teacher clearly does NOT. Wonder what she would say if you asked her why she doesn't care one bit about your son?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 331288, member: 1233"] Shari, this girl is impacting wee's education. HE has a right to FAPE in the LRE, period. He also has the RIGHT to not be bullied. If an adult was doing this to an adult it would be a hostile work environment. This law is sometimes used in schools by creative lawyers. (Have seen it used here by husband's Easy Child fiance. she is a brilliant family law atty.) You MUST put this in writing and go to the Superintendent of schools. I do not CARE how upset principal will be. Nor should you. The school policy is NOT being followed and your child is being HURT. Real, lasting damage is being done to wee. Just think about all the talk shows where kids who were bullied talk long after high school to the people who bullied them in elementary school. Will you LET wee be treated like this? Cause that is what is happening. It is past time to hold their feet to the fire. Not sure what the girl's parents are doing to keep school from suspending her. Might be interesting to talk to other teachers and parents about her. This is not her first time. She shows too much skill to be new to it. USE this and the suspension wee got to hold the school's feet to the fire until the GIRL is PUNISHED. PERIOD. Wee must SEE that you stand up for him. 100% stand up and scream NO for him. It will be the best way to stop this and teach him to keep trusting you to care for this. It IS hard. You want cooperation not fighting. Ask the principal why you should not file a complaint that wee was suspended and his education was harmed and his SOUL was harmed by the girl and then doubly harmed by the school suspending HIM and not punishing girl. The mainstream tteacher must also be held accountable. in my opinion you will only truly help wee by standing up to the school to demand fair and legal treatment. You will only teach him to be a victim if you do not start protesting this abuse of him. I know you don't want that. And that conflict is really hard for you. I also know you do not want them to damage him. Do you have wee see a therapist? I think it may be time to have someone who can evaluate how this is all harming him and help figure out ways to stop it. Someone who is an "expert" and can help you document all of this. It is a shame the school doesn't really care about wee. Cause the mainstream teacher clearly does NOT. Wonder what she would say if you asked her why she doesn't care one bit about your son? [/QUOTE]
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