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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 139082" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">I know BBK - coming from a long line of alcoholics myself I am aware of the lingo and the state of things with H and his so called sobriety. I know its just a matter of time. He's gone without alcohol for over a year before and then he talked himself into thinking that a glass of red wine was more important for his heart health than the danger of his alcoholism. Thanks for your note.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">I feel so stupid to have married another person with addictions. In every other way he's a good man, has been a good father to my girls. I know that easy child would be devastated if we broke up, not that I'm ready to jump ship yet. </span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Star, I think I have it in me to live my life, whether H travels with me or not. He's lost in his own little world right now and as BBK said, he really should be treating his alcoholism. I can't stop living because he chooses not to and I can't force him to do what I think is right for him (or us). He needs to make the choice on his own. Of course, it will be difficult to listen to him try and guilt me every time I choose to get out there and live with or without him, Know what I mean?? I already make plans to meet a friend out for dinner occasionally or for coffee in the mornings and I drive up to see easy child at her school and I go to the salon to have my nails done, etc., on the weekends to get out. But I do think it's time to kick it up a notch. I've been kind of doing little things for myself while still also trying to keep things balanced at home. Last Summer I went up to Maine with a girlfriend to visit another girlfriend and we had so much fun. I also go down to WV to visit my oldest sister and spend time with her on the river on a cabin. H chooses not to join me, so I go anyway. It's just that this was different. It was spontaneous and supposed to be fun and I was so excited that he agreed and then WHAM! He changed his mind. I don't know how I'm going to get through this evening - we have to go pick up the new mattress set I bought for easy child's old room. I suppose I will just have to.</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Thanks for the support ladies.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 139082, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]I know BBK - coming from a long line of alcoholics myself I am aware of the lingo and the state of things with H and his so called sobriety. I know its just a matter of time. He's gone without alcohol for over a year before and then he talked himself into thinking that a glass of red wine was more important for his heart health than the danger of his alcoholism. Thanks for your note.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]I feel so stupid to have married another person with addictions. In every other way he's a good man, has been a good father to my girls. I know that easy child would be devastated if we broke up, not that I'm ready to jump ship yet. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Star, I think I have it in me to live my life, whether H travels with me or not. He's lost in his own little world right now and as BBK said, he really should be treating his alcoholism. I can't stop living because he chooses not to and I can't force him to do what I think is right for him (or us). He needs to make the choice on his own. Of course, it will be difficult to listen to him try and guilt me every time I choose to get out there and live with or without him, Know what I mean?? I already make plans to meet a friend out for dinner occasionally or for coffee in the mornings and I drive up to see easy child at her school and I go to the salon to have my nails done, etc., on the weekends to get out. But I do think it's time to kick it up a notch. I've been kind of doing little things for myself while still also trying to keep things balanced at home. Last Summer I went up to Maine with a girlfriend to visit another girlfriend and we had so much fun. I also go down to WV to visit my oldest sister and spend time with her on the river on a cabin. H chooses not to join me, so I go anyway. It's just that this was different. It was spontaneous and supposed to be fun and I was so excited that he agreed and then WHAM! He changed his mind. I don't know how I'm going to get through this evening - we have to go pick up the new mattress set I bought for easy child's old room. I suppose I will just have to.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Thanks for the support ladies.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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