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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 621820" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>What the attorney will tell you is that while you are responsible for his room and board you don't have to pay for a hotel. You will pay for residential treatment, so you need to get on the phone and get pre-authorization from your insurance NOW. If he won't go to rehab then he has run away. </p><p></p><p>There's nothing in between that I am leaving out. Stop paying for the hotel. Tell the hotel you're done paying and that they should evict him and if he won't leave they should call the police because a bed is waiting for him at "XYZ Rehab".</p><p></p><p>I think that you would be more comfortable hearing this from an attorney, but if you want to save yourself attorney fees do just what I said. </p><p></p><ol> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Get pre-authorization from your insurance for rehab (yes you'll transport him deal with <em>that</em> when & if the time comes);</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Tell the motel you are done paying because he has a bed in "XYZ Rehab";</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Tell the motel that they should be prepared to call the police to evict him;</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">When he runs off report him as a runaway;</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">When the police pick him up tell them that he has a bed at "XYZ Rehab".</li> </ol><p>You seriously need to get in front of this <em>before</em> this goes wrong because this is going to go wrong. You just paid two weeks for your out of control GROWN SON to act like an adult and live on his own on your dime. He's going to have a tantrum when you cut him off, and he's going to cause damage. You need to be prepared. You need to see it coming and know how you will react.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 621820, member: 99"] What the attorney will tell you is that while you are responsible for his room and board you don't have to pay for a hotel. You will pay for residential treatment, so you need to get on the phone and get pre-authorization from your insurance NOW. If he won't go to rehab then he has run away. There's nothing in between that I am leaving out. Stop paying for the hotel. Tell the hotel you're done paying and that they should evict him and if he won't leave they should call the police because a bed is waiting for him at "XYZ Rehab". I think that you would be more comfortable hearing this from an attorney, but if you want to save yourself attorney fees do just what I said. [LIST=1] [*]Get pre-authorization from your insurance for rehab (yes you'll transport him deal with [I]that[/I] when & if the time comes); [*]Tell the motel you are done paying because he has a bed in "XYZ Rehab"; [*]Tell the motel that they should be prepared to call the police to evict him; [*]When he runs off report him as a runaway; [*]When the police pick him up tell them that he has a bed at "XYZ Rehab". [/LIST] You seriously need to get in front of this [I]before[/I] this goes wrong because this is going to go wrong. You just paid two weeks for your out of control GROWN SON to act like an adult and live on his own on your dime. He's going to have a tantrum when you cut him off, and he's going to cause damage. You need to be prepared. You need to see it coming and know how you will react. [/QUOTE]
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