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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 450858" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>As soon as I saw the number 75, I began to seriously doubt this was true.</p><p></p><p>It might be - our difficult children do put some truth in what they say. But this sounds too too much like J - "You know X hit me 75 times" (Oh REALLY? You COUNTED, instead of getting away or getting help? Do NOT think so.)</p><p></p><p>If easy child denies any sort of interactions like this... Hmm.</p><p></p><p>Now here's the thing. Boys think it's <em>funny</em> to kick and/or grab each other's private bits. I don't see why it's funny to see someone else in pain, but a lot of people think it is. Anyway, either there is something HUGE going on at Jack's, in which case his Mom needs to know what's been going on, or there's HUGE deflection going on, and Jack's Mom needs to know there is a good reason why difficult child isn't hanging out with Jack any more.</p><p></p><p>Example: June 4. Nephew stays over, was helping husband with getting room ready for M. J at BM's. O grounded, and not thrilled. Power goes out. O sneaks out, nephew tells her it's not a good idea. June 5, nephew's laptop has vanished, but O happily goes with husband to take nephew home, so she can hang out with him (though she doesn't get to). June 6, O at school, laptop found under her bed; then CPS arrives, telling husband that O said nephew "felt her up". (Interestingly, this is not what she told the neighbor.) O comes in from school - rode with friends, though grounded and not supposed to, screaming at husband that someone stole the $10 she found. He tells her he wants to discuss the visit from CPS - she slams in the house and POOF! Runs away. (Though she claims he told her to GET OUT. Highly doubt that.)</p><p></p><p>This is deflection. O was in serious trouble for being arrested AGAIN, and snuck out, and got caught. So what does she do? Blames the person who can rat her out. Who would not have, to be honest.</p><p></p><p>I think you and Jack's Mom need to go have a cup of coffee, sans kids, and you tell her look, difficult child is accusing Jack of all kinds of stuff, but he just stole the iPod, and I don't think they need to be together for a while.</p><p></p><p>...And if Jack is REALLY doing this? Why does difficult child keep going over there?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 450858, member: 6705"] As soon as I saw the number 75, I began to seriously doubt this was true. It might be - our difficult children do put some truth in what they say. But this sounds too too much like J - "You know X hit me 75 times" (Oh REALLY? You COUNTED, instead of getting away or getting help? Do NOT think so.) If easy child denies any sort of interactions like this... Hmm. Now here's the thing. Boys think it's [I]funny[/I] to kick and/or grab each other's private bits. I don't see why it's funny to see someone else in pain, but a lot of people think it is. Anyway, either there is something HUGE going on at Jack's, in which case his Mom needs to know what's been going on, or there's HUGE deflection going on, and Jack's Mom needs to know there is a good reason why difficult child isn't hanging out with Jack any more. Example: June 4. Nephew stays over, was helping husband with getting room ready for M. J at BM's. O grounded, and not thrilled. Power goes out. O sneaks out, nephew tells her it's not a good idea. June 5, nephew's laptop has vanished, but O happily goes with husband to take nephew home, so she can hang out with him (though she doesn't get to). June 6, O at school, laptop found under her bed; then CPS arrives, telling husband that O said nephew "felt her up". (Interestingly, this is not what she told the neighbor.) O comes in from school - rode with friends, though grounded and not supposed to, screaming at husband that someone stole the $10 she found. He tells her he wants to discuss the visit from CPS - she slams in the house and POOF! Runs away. (Though she claims he told her to GET OUT. Highly doubt that.) This is deflection. O was in serious trouble for being arrested AGAIN, and snuck out, and got caught. So what does she do? Blames the person who can rat her out. Who would not have, to be honest. I think you and Jack's Mom need to go have a cup of coffee, sans kids, and you tell her look, difficult child is accusing Jack of all kinds of stuff, but he just stole the iPod, and I don't think they need to be together for a while. ...And if Jack is REALLY doing this? Why does difficult child keep going over there? [/QUOTE]
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