JJJ
Active Member
I agree with the don't allow kids to quit. But, it doesn't work here. Eeyore joined cross country last year as did Piglet. Within one week, Eeyore was announcing that he wanted to quit. Within two weeks, Piglet was begging us to let him quit. Eeyore acted totally inappropriately and was offending everyone. The coaches suspended him from running in a meet, we took away his DS, then Wii, then all screen time. He was grounded from everything but school and cross country. By the fourth week, we let him quit because it wasn't fair to Piglet, the coaches nor the rest of the team to force him to be there. His therapist said that he was willing to take every punishment we had because he was obsessed with quitting.
It is very upsetting to husband and I that he is a quitter. We are now at the point that we will not pay for any activity and we will not let him participate in limited-enrollment clubs at school (not fair to take a spot from another kid).
I'm glad he went today and I hope he likes it as they start games.
It is very upsetting to husband and I that he is a quitter. We are now at the point that we will not pay for any activity and we will not let him participate in limited-enrollment clubs at school (not fair to take a spot from another kid).
I'm glad he went today and I hope he likes it as they start games.