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For 18 years I worried about this reunion
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 305842"><p>Well, no doubt about this person having serious issues of her own.</p><p> </p><p>My guess is that biomom has been in survival mode a very long time and has not had to, been in a position to nor been motivated to put the needs of others before hers or even along side of her own.</p><p> </p><p>More than likely, others have not been particularly giving to her either....however...these things tend to be give and take...back and forth...what goes around comes around...you get the picture.</p><p> </p><p>I think it should give you "pause" that you have put your needs aside for difficult child for many years and she continues to treat you in a shabby manner.</p><p> </p><p>One can be generous and give a certain # of passes for a young difficult child struggling to make sense of things...but she is older now. You have proven yourself. No doubt you have made mental health services to her. Hmmm. Enough is enough.</p><p> </p><p>Just my own personal thoughts....but no more putting your needs aside. </p><p> </p><p>I would provide her the opportunity for good mental health care....I would give her opportunities to join the family on certain ocassions, but only if she is appropriate and is willing to following guidelines/boundaries.</p><p> </p><p>Enjoy your freedom...no turning back. No guilt. Hold your head up high, put one foot in front of the other and run baby run.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 305842"] Well, no doubt about this person having serious issues of her own. My guess is that biomom has been in survival mode a very long time and has not had to, been in a position to nor been motivated to put the needs of others before hers or even along side of her own. More than likely, others have not been particularly giving to her either....however...these things tend to be give and take...back and forth...what goes around comes around...you get the picture. I think it should give you "pause" that you have put your needs aside for difficult child for many years and she continues to treat you in a shabby manner. One can be generous and give a certain # of passes for a young difficult child struggling to make sense of things...but she is older now. You have proven yourself. No doubt you have made mental health services to her. Hmmm. Enough is enough. Just my own personal thoughts....but no more putting your needs aside. I would provide her the opportunity for good mental health care....I would give her opportunities to join the family on certain ocassions, but only if she is appropriate and is willing to following guidelines/boundaries. Enjoy your freedom...no turning back. No guilt. Hold your head up high, put one foot in front of the other and run baby run. [/QUOTE]
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