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<blockquote data-quote="erbaledge" data-source="post: 431496" data-attributes="member: 4334"><p>Wintak - good luck! And another good thread/question, hopefully someone has some tips.</p><p></p><p>As for my family, gfg16 still cry's the 'it's not fair' card on a daily basis; I've kind of assumed that this will end when she's eighteen/living on her own. </p><p></p><p>To help thwart that as best as I can, I do my very best to consequence consistently for all three kids. There's even a pretty good age difference, gfg16, ds13, and dd10. </p><p>(by the way, just realized my typo in my last post, my difficult child is now 16, will fix it and my siggy)</p><p></p><p>I just recently started another new level system and a reward system. Everyone has the same target goals and same discipline/consequence/rewards available. One thing the therapist had questioned, she thought my oldest should have a later bedtime - eh, not in my opinion, not if said oldest child wants fairness. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Plus it just makes it easier overall.</p><p></p><p>(edit: I may have failed to clarify why I think this is a good thread/question - because I would love to know how to make it work, hence why I'm trying this new system, that is working for one kid well, one kiddo okay, and gfg16 can't tell a difference)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="erbaledge, post: 431496, member: 4334"] Wintak - good luck! And another good thread/question, hopefully someone has some tips. As for my family, gfg16 still cry's the 'it's not fair' card on a daily basis; I've kind of assumed that this will end when she's eighteen/living on her own. To help thwart that as best as I can, I do my very best to consequence consistently for all three kids. There's even a pretty good age difference, gfg16, ds13, and dd10. (by the way, just realized my typo in my last post, my difficult child is now 16, will fix it and my siggy) I just recently started another new level system and a reward system. Everyone has the same target goals and same discipline/consequence/rewards available. One thing the therapist had questioned, she thought my oldest should have a later bedtime - eh, not in my opinion, not if said oldest child wants fairness. :) Plus it just makes it easier overall. (edit: I may have failed to clarify why I think this is a good thread/question - because I would love to know how to make it work, hence why I'm trying this new system, that is working for one kid well, one kiddo okay, and gfg16 can't tell a difference) [/QUOTE]
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