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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 422874" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Given that he is still not safe with his sibs, this must be terribly hard for you. I was able to have my difficult child totally out of the house as I healed because he simply couldn't live with us as he was much larger and stronger than I was and my husband was not home much. I do think that you need to find a way to have some alone time as often as possible plus time with the other kids with-o him.</p><p> </p><p>I am glad you reached out to the DV center. It is a terrible thing when you must figure out how to recover from the severe crisis of a violent child while he is still in the home and is still not really safe around the other kids. Go easy on yourself - you may be feeling the fear of him for quite a while and really it may be your instincts telling you something is really wrong. My son did a LOT of awful things at night after we were asleep. Is there any chance your son is doing things to the other kids after you are asleep? They may not tell you because he has threatened them, etc...</p><p> </p><p>Why do the docs think he wanted to hurt the other kids so much? Has he gotten any real treatment for that, meaning medications, therapy, etc...?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 422874, member: 1233"] Given that he is still not safe with his sibs, this must be terribly hard for you. I was able to have my difficult child totally out of the house as I healed because he simply couldn't live with us as he was much larger and stronger than I was and my husband was not home much. I do think that you need to find a way to have some alone time as often as possible plus time with the other kids with-o him. I am glad you reached out to the DV center. It is a terrible thing when you must figure out how to recover from the severe crisis of a violent child while he is still in the home and is still not really safe around the other kids. Go easy on yourself - you may be feeling the fear of him for quite a while and really it may be your instincts telling you something is really wrong. My son did a LOT of awful things at night after we were asleep. Is there any chance your son is doing things to the other kids after you are asleep? They may not tell you because he has threatened them, etc... Why do the docs think he wanted to hurt the other kids so much? Has he gotten any real treatment for that, meaning medications, therapy, etc...? [/QUOTE]
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