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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 298288"><p>Contemplative here. When my friend went through this...almost verbatim...literally....her daughter went through a period were she felt that everything was genetic..."see there was no hope." This gave the daughter MORE excuses. She used it and joined in the mother's faulty thinking. Years later, very recently, the daughter is now thinking a little clearer...saying things like she is appreciative of her adoptive mother, wants to improve that relationship and her life and has some choices to make in that regard. The mom (adoptive) was stuck between a rock and a hard place at the time (as well as the counselor) when it was suggested that biomom be found. Nancy's description is nearly exact to this situation, except this mom was not working...I believe she was on disability. Wishing you guys well...its a tough call...but you can only do so much, you are a great mom for providing a potential opportunity and your daughter must make her own choices/decisions about what she wants or doesn't want for her life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 298288"] Contemplative here. When my friend went through this...almost verbatim...literally....her daughter went through a period were she felt that everything was genetic..."see there was no hope." This gave the daughter MORE excuses. She used it and joined in the mother's faulty thinking. Years later, very recently, the daughter is now thinking a little clearer...saying things like she is appreciative of her adoptive mother, wants to improve that relationship and her life and has some choices to make in that regard. The mom (adoptive) was stuck between a rock and a hard place at the time (as well as the counselor) when it was suggested that biomom be found. Nancy's description is nearly exact to this situation, except this mom was not working...I believe she was on disability. Wishing you guys well...its a tough call...but you can only do so much, you are a great mom for providing a potential opportunity and your daughter must make her own choices/decisions about what she wants or doesn't want for her life. [/QUOTE]
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