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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 497084" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I am going to be more blunt I think. I think your neighbors whose children have been molested really need to call the police and insist charges are pressed. They are doing neither your daughter, or most importantly, their children any good service by not reacting in a strong manner. Those parents need to show their daughters that they feel that what happened to them was wrong and that they will protect them from harm and will prosecute anyone who harms them. I know this because when I was 3 or 4 a babysitter molested me and my parents did nothing. They just told me to forget about it because I wasnt really hurt badly. It wasnt all that bad because she was only a girl. Well obviously I still remember and I am still angry they did nothing to protect me. </p><p></p><p>If you cant get that done, go push CPS and go to the juvenile courts yourself and tell them what has happened. You may have to file what is called either a Child in Need of Services or a Person in Need of Services to get access to help. I think with what she has done you should be able to get her before the judge relatively fast. I doubt they will go through the basic steps of having you try in home therapy and such because the risk of her acting out again is just too great. You simply cannot keep her safe 24/7. She needs a placement for kids like her. I would search your state and states around you for placements and have them available to talk to the judge about when you see him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 497084, member: 1514"] I am going to be more blunt I think. I think your neighbors whose children have been molested really need to call the police and insist charges are pressed. They are doing neither your daughter, or most importantly, their children any good service by not reacting in a strong manner. Those parents need to show their daughters that they feel that what happened to them was wrong and that they will protect them from harm and will prosecute anyone who harms them. I know this because when I was 3 or 4 a babysitter molested me and my parents did nothing. They just told me to forget about it because I wasnt really hurt badly. It wasnt all that bad because she was only a girl. Well obviously I still remember and I am still angry they did nothing to protect me. If you cant get that done, go push CPS and go to the juvenile courts yourself and tell them what has happened. You may have to file what is called either a Child in Need of Services or a Person in Need of Services to get access to help. I think with what she has done you should be able to get her before the judge relatively fast. I doubt they will go through the basic steps of having you try in home therapy and such because the risk of her acting out again is just too great. You simply cannot keep her safe 24/7. She needs a placement for kids like her. I would search your state and states around you for placements and have them available to talk to the judge about when you see him. [/QUOTE]
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