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<blockquote data-quote="C.J." data-source="post: 251861" data-attributes="member: 1987"><p>Whew - what a mess. It sounds like difficult child has been able to manipulate the people at the temporary placement he was in. Phone call asking about dinner was creepy.</p><p></p><p>Get to the hardware store, and buy locks for anything and everything which needs to remain safe - bedroom doors, anything which can become a weapon. </p><p></p><p>Are you and your ds able to get away for the next week? Probably not - how about ds? Can he stay with friends (2 nights one place, 2 nights somewhere else, grandparents?)</p><p></p><p>Insist that if husband leaves the house, so does difficult child. You do not have to be home alone with him.</p><p></p><p>Notify man who is supposed to be available 24/7 that you WILL be using his services. Suggest he pack a bag, as he may be boarding with you.</p><p></p><p>Keep cordless phone and cell phone on your person while difficult child is there.</p><p></p><p>If anything happens, call the police. I know you're not too sure about juvenile detention, but if he makes any threats, acts in a violent manner, police should be called and he should be removed.</p><p></p><p>I know your heart is racing, your blood pressure is already up, and your muscles have begun to tense up. Slow deep breaths - you will get through this - sometimes minute by minute. Your plan B - consider a battered woman's shelter - batterers are not always grown men.</p><p></p><p>I'll be keeping you in my prayers. Be strong. Be safe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="C.J., post: 251861, member: 1987"] Whew - what a mess. It sounds like difficult child has been able to manipulate the people at the temporary placement he was in. Phone call asking about dinner was creepy. Get to the hardware store, and buy locks for anything and everything which needs to remain safe - bedroom doors, anything which can become a weapon. Are you and your ds able to get away for the next week? Probably not - how about ds? Can he stay with friends (2 nights one place, 2 nights somewhere else, grandparents?) Insist that if husband leaves the house, so does difficult child. You do not have to be home alone with him. Notify man who is supposed to be available 24/7 that you WILL be using his services. Suggest he pack a bag, as he may be boarding with you. Keep cordless phone and cell phone on your person while difficult child is there. If anything happens, call the police. I know you're not too sure about juvenile detention, but if he makes any threats, acts in a violent manner, police should be called and he should be removed. I know your heart is racing, your blood pressure is already up, and your muscles have begun to tense up. Slow deep breaths - you will get through this - sometimes minute by minute. Your plan B - consider a battered woman's shelter - batterers are not always grown men. I'll be keeping you in my prayers. Be strong. Be safe. [/QUOTE]
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