husband and I have been getting on easy child to take out her loan for school for the fall. She has been ignoring for more than a month. Tonight I really got after her, and she told us that she does not want to continue in the program she is in, she hated it, and was not having a good time. She has decided that she would like to be a vet tech. And maybe a vet. OK. husband and I so do not care. But, she wanted to enroll in some online school. That freaked me out. So, I looked at the university she is attending, and they have a program. So, she can just transfer to the other campus and take her credits with her. Now to just get everything situated. Oh, and she told difficult child what she wanted to do, but that she was afraid to tell us. difficult child very wisely told her "mommy and daddy do not care what you decide to do as long as you are happy." And when easy child finally broke down and told us, we told her exactly that. Now I just hope we can get everything sorted out in time for school to start.