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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 410983" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>I agree 100% with Step. Having been through infertility, it is soul shattering. I had nothing left to give to anyone, just getting through a day took everything I had. She is likely raging at the unfairness of life, that she who is in a place in her life where she can welcome and care for a baby is denied one yet your daughter who does not seem able to care for herself has a baby. I agree with the suggestion to have the friendship take a break from 'issues'. Maybe just talk to her and say that both of you are dealing with so much koi that you'd like to do something (dinner/movie/whatever) together and agree not to talk about her if or your difficult child. (If you feel that she would be a good mom, maybe just acknowledging the unfairness of life and the absolute randomness of who gets babies would help.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 410983, member: 1169"] I agree 100% with Step. Having been through infertility, it is soul shattering. I had nothing left to give to anyone, just getting through a day took everything I had. She is likely raging at the unfairness of life, that she who is in a place in her life where she can welcome and care for a baby is denied one yet your daughter who does not seem able to care for herself has a baby. I agree with the suggestion to have the friendship take a break from 'issues'. Maybe just talk to her and say that both of you are dealing with so much koi that you'd like to do something (dinner/movie/whatever) together and agree not to talk about her if or your difficult child. (If you feel that she would be a good mom, maybe just acknowledging the unfairness of life and the absolute randomness of who gets babies would help.) [/QUOTE]
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