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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 655601" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>That's all you have done is be his parents and try and help him. Unfortunately he just doesn't see it, he only see himself as a victim. Very typical of a Difficult Child, again, they want to be able to just live their life without and consequence, they have zero respect for any form of authority.</p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Yes, that's exactly how Difficult Child think. I can't tell you how many times I would talk to my son about how his actions have affected me and his dad only to have him say things like "why do you always have to throw the past in my face, why can't you just let it go" "Go ahead, kick me while I'm down" "Too bad I can't be perfect like you are"</p><p>I've told my son that I have forgiven him but I can't forget, it's just humanly impossible. I've told him that I don't trust him because of everything he's done and for me to trust him again will take a lot of work on his part. My son chooses to stay in the victim role. As far as he's concerned he does no wrong it's the everyone else who's out to get him.</p><p>I remember last year when my son go arrested. He wrote us a letter from jail and he told us that he had a camp set up in the woods and was ticked off because he just knew that while he was in jail someone would find his camp and steal all his stuff. They just don't get it. In "their world" they can steal and it's ok, but if someone steals from them, well that's just wrong.</p><p>I will never understand their thinking and gave up a long time ago trying to.</p><p> </p><p>Hang in there Lil.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 655601, member: 18516"] That's all you have done is be his parents and try and help him. Unfortunately he just doesn't see it, he only see himself as a victim. Very typical of a Difficult Child, again, they want to be able to just live their life without and consequence, they have zero respect for any form of authority. Yes, that's exactly how Difficult Child think. I can't tell you how many times I would talk to my son about how his actions have affected me and his dad only to have him say things like "why do you always have to throw the past in my face, why can't you just let it go" "Go ahead, kick me while I'm down" "Too bad I can't be perfect like you are" I've told my son that I have forgiven him but I can't forget, it's just humanly impossible. I've told him that I don't trust him because of everything he's done and for me to trust him again will take a lot of work on his part. My son chooses to stay in the victim role. As far as he's concerned he does no wrong it's the everyone else who's out to get him. I remember last year when my son go arrested. He wrote us a letter from jail and he told us that he had a camp set up in the woods and was ticked off because he just knew that while he was in jail someone would find his camp and steal all his stuff. They just don't get it. In "their world" they can steal and it's ok, but if someone steals from them, well that's just wrong. I will never understand their thinking and gave up a long time ago trying to. Hang in there Lil. [/QUOTE]
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