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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 656180" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>Lil and Jabber,</p><p></p><p>I have been reading on mobile devices, which I hate to type on, but now I'm back at a computer and I wanted to say one thing...please forgive yourself for escalating that day. I think when we react as you did to something our DCs do, that it is out of a very deep parental fear...their behavior wrenchs a reaction of "OMG, he really is not OK, has never been OK, will never be OK" , and the terror for them and what that means for their future. That is the only way I could explain to myself the extreme reactions that my son could invoke in me. I feel that with all the stress you two have been under, and the roller coaster of dealing with your son, that his crazy lit that flame in you. Your reaction came from a place of deep love for him and fear for him.</p><p></p><p>Thats all I wanted to say. I may be totally wrong, but if not I wanted you to know that we see, we feel, we understand.</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 656180, member: 17269"] Lil and Jabber, I have been reading on mobile devices, which I hate to type on, but now I'm back at a computer and I wanted to say one thing...please forgive yourself for escalating that day. I think when we react as you did to something our DCs do, that it is out of a very deep parental fear...their behavior wrenchs a reaction of "OMG, he really is not OK, has never been OK, will never be OK" , and the terror for them and what that means for their future. That is the only way I could explain to myself the extreme reactions that my son could invoke in me. I feel that with all the stress you two have been under, and the roller coaster of dealing with your son, that his crazy lit that flame in you. Your reaction came from a place of deep love for him and fear for him. Thats all I wanted to say. I may be totally wrong, but if not I wanted you to know that we see, we feel, we understand. Echo [/QUOTE]
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