PorcupineWhisperer
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"Junior" has been home a little over a year and for those who have followed his progress through my posts, I am happy to say that he continues to improve. He was recently received a 'Most Improved Student' award at school for both behavioral and academic improvement (he has gone from sleeping in class and refusing to work to getting his work done consistently and currently is passing all courses with a B or better). He was recently treated to lunch by the school's resource officer (the same police officer who had to intervene several times earlier in the year when difficult child was raging and the classroom had to be cleared). He currently is a peer helper along with other teens in a PE class for students with developmental disabilities. At present he is on track to 'graduate' from his self contained classroom and start next year in regular classes.
At home difficult child has been safe around the household pets and they no longer flee when he walks in the room . He is able to spend unsupervised time with his older sister without fear that he may hurt her. Because difficult child is more responsible (and significantly less aggressive) Mom is able to leave him with other family members and start to have a social life without having to be home all the time or 'on call' to manage difficult child's behavior.
difficult child definitely still has some aggressive/predatory tendencies, but he has become able to compartmentalize them to specific times during our play therapy sessions. He sticks very close to the 'Aggression Diet' that we have implemented and will call or text between sessions if he is not sure whether something is OK (cartoon violence is OK, M rated games or the type of violence in the Dark Knight is not). Mom playfully calls him Dexter after the character in the TV show.
All and all I am very proud of him. He has worked hard and has done well. Not only has he improved his quality of life and that of his family, but also the unknown people he would have likely had a negative impact on if he had maintained his past path into adulthood. Time will tell, but the prognosis looks good. 
At home difficult child has been safe around the household pets and they no longer flee when he walks in the room . He is able to spend unsupervised time with his older sister without fear that he may hurt her. Because difficult child is more responsible (and significantly less aggressive) Mom is able to leave him with other family members and start to have a social life without having to be home all the time or 'on call' to manage difficult child's behavior.
difficult child definitely still has some aggressive/predatory tendencies, but he has become able to compartmentalize them to specific times during our play therapy sessions. He sticks very close to the 'Aggression Diet' that we have implemented and will call or text between sessions if he is not sure whether something is OK (cartoon violence is OK, M rated games or the type of violence in the Dark Knight is not). Mom playfully calls him Dexter after the character in the TV show.
All and all I am very proud of him. He has worked hard and has done well. Not only has he improved his quality of life and that of his family, but also the unknown people he would have likely had a negative impact on if he had maintained his past path into adulthood. Time will tell, but the prognosis looks good. 