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<blockquote data-quote="sadtiredconfused" data-source="post: 338658" data-attributes="member: 8885"><p>Thanks for the hugs ladies! I know it is going to be difficult for a while with him becaus any change in routine is difficult for him and always has been and he is real slow to warm up to new people so it's just going to be tough. </p><p> </p><p>We explained to him when he went in to ES initially back in October that if he could prove himself on the behavior charts and show progress that he would likely only have to check-in with the ES teacher once daily and could be in regular ed but instead he is still trying to butt heads with the teachers and run the show so he has shown no progress in fact he's gotten worse. So, now he's in there for half the day and I did explain to him if he proved himself that at the end of the year we could re-open the IEP and next year he wouldn't have to be in there much and maybe not at all as long as his good behavior continued. </p><p> </p><p>He has a problem with lack of responsibility so he just sees no connection in his behavior and the consequence which is why we have so much trouble breaking through to him. He thinks it's all the teacher's fault and that the ES teacher "just wants to torture him". He says the ES teacher "makes him get angry and explode". </p><p> </p><p>So scary dealing with this mindset and just heartbreaking to see where it has gotten him already at 9 y/o. Im so scared of what other consequences for his actions I'm going to have to stand by and watch him go through!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sadtiredconfused, post: 338658, member: 8885"] Thanks for the hugs ladies! I know it is going to be difficult for a while with him becaus any change in routine is difficult for him and always has been and he is real slow to warm up to new people so it's just going to be tough. We explained to him when he went in to ES initially back in October that if he could prove himself on the behavior charts and show progress that he would likely only have to check-in with the ES teacher once daily and could be in regular ed but instead he is still trying to butt heads with the teachers and run the show so he has shown no progress in fact he's gotten worse. So, now he's in there for half the day and I did explain to him if he proved himself that at the end of the year we could re-open the IEP and next year he wouldn't have to be in there much and maybe not at all as long as his good behavior continued. He has a problem with lack of responsibility so he just sees no connection in his behavior and the consequence which is why we have so much trouble breaking through to him. He thinks it's all the teacher's fault and that the ES teacher "just wants to torture him". He says the ES teacher "makes him get angry and explode". So scary dealing with this mindset and just heartbreaking to see where it has gotten him already at 9 y/o. Im so scared of what other consequences for his actions I'm going to have to stand by and watch him go through! [/QUOTE]
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