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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 108259" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>HI - WOW WHAT A DAY HUH? </p><p></p><p>Okay first off if difficult child has marks on him that is cause IF YOU WISH you may file simple assault charges against the other boy. You could do that or you could take him to the police station tonight, show them his marks, and ask to file an INCIDENT report only. This doesn't sound like something you want to make a huge deal out of as difficult child 'may' be tweaking the story a bit to make his involvement less - however if my kid came home with marks - Id have an incident report. This doesn't arrest or charge anyone - it just lets the cops know there is a potential situation and lets the parents of the other child know - KNOCK IT OFF. </p><p></p><p>This will serve 2 purposes. First, if you file an incident report only the police WILL go to the other child's home and speak with his parents, and this lets them know that his advances are NOT to happen again. Now the law is involved and someone may or may not take it serious on the other end, but you are covering YOUR behind legally. </p><p>Second: If you take an incident report to the school this tells THEM also that you are more than upset about the way the situation was handled by them. Personally when there is any physical contact I think a resource officer should be called. HANDS TO YOURSELF. </p><p></p><p>But be warned: The principal did handle it in a manner that gave BOTH boys community service. I hope it's not at the same place. But if you DO file a report of any kind - you're going to have to be sure there is NO MORE involvement of any kind from difficult child or it could get ugly for retaliation quick! </p><p></p><p>On the matter of the report: </p><p></p><p>When you call try this: </p><p></p><p>Hello, WHom am I speaking to please? WRITE DOWN NAME, and start time, and date, and end time of speaking to that person. I am Ms. So and So, I called last week regarding the written diagnosis for KID X. Are YOU the person I need to speak with about getting this by (Give date). NO? WHo would I need to speak to? (OH miss B) Can you spell HER/HIS name for me, I'm writing this down. How do I spell YOUR last name dear? Okay. </p><p></p><p>Then you get connected to voice mail - CALL BACK - tell MIss THING you were wondering who Miss B's Boss is? Can I have THAT name? Could you connect me to HER? And sometimes MIRACLE OF MIRACLE you get MISS B - then you ask her the date (and then say I need it by X or I'm writing down what you are telling me) and then you ask HER what HER boss' name is - and explain to her that you know she is BUSY, but if SHE can't get you the needed documentation by (give your date) then YOU will call her boss on (the day you gave her as YOUR date) and explain that SHE was too busy and that you want her boss to assign someone that CAN get you your letter by (give new day only 2 days later) </p><p></p><p>GET NAMES - WRITE DOWN TIMES - AND REMEMBER EVERYONE HAS A BOSS - </p><p>GET THEIR NAME - and STICK TO YOUR GUNS - just keep going up the ladder until you have a letter mailed, and JUST to be on the safe side - have a FAX number, and an EMAIL for them - and then the DAY after you would initially speak to Miss B or her BOss - WRITE THEM A LETTER with all the above information in it - and let them know you are serious. </p><p></p><p>If you can't do that - I'll help. Just get the info.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 108259, member: 4964"] HI - WOW WHAT A DAY HUH? Okay first off if difficult child has marks on him that is cause IF YOU WISH you may file simple assault charges against the other boy. You could do that or you could take him to the police station tonight, show them his marks, and ask to file an INCIDENT report only. This doesn't sound like something you want to make a huge deal out of as difficult child 'may' be tweaking the story a bit to make his involvement less - however if my kid came home with marks - Id have an incident report. This doesn't arrest or charge anyone - it just lets the cops know there is a potential situation and lets the parents of the other child know - KNOCK IT OFF. This will serve 2 purposes. First, if you file an incident report only the police WILL go to the other child's home and speak with his parents, and this lets them know that his advances are NOT to happen again. Now the law is involved and someone may or may not take it serious on the other end, but you are covering YOUR behind legally. Second: If you take an incident report to the school this tells THEM also that you are more than upset about the way the situation was handled by them. Personally when there is any physical contact I think a resource officer should be called. HANDS TO YOURSELF. But be warned: The principal did handle it in a manner that gave BOTH boys community service. I hope it's not at the same place. But if you DO file a report of any kind - you're going to have to be sure there is NO MORE involvement of any kind from difficult child or it could get ugly for retaliation quick! On the matter of the report: When you call try this: Hello, WHom am I speaking to please? WRITE DOWN NAME, and start time, and date, and end time of speaking to that person. I am Ms. So and So, I called last week regarding the written diagnosis for KID X. Are YOU the person I need to speak with about getting this by (Give date). NO? WHo would I need to speak to? (OH miss B) Can you spell HER/HIS name for me, I'm writing this down. How do I spell YOUR last name dear? Okay. Then you get connected to voice mail - CALL BACK - tell MIss THING you were wondering who Miss B's Boss is? Can I have THAT name? Could you connect me to HER? And sometimes MIRACLE OF MIRACLE you get MISS B - then you ask her the date (and then say I need it by X or I'm writing down what you are telling me) and then you ask HER what HER boss' name is - and explain to her that you know she is BUSY, but if SHE can't get you the needed documentation by (give your date) then YOU will call her boss on (the day you gave her as YOUR date) and explain that SHE was too busy and that you want her boss to assign someone that CAN get you your letter by (give new day only 2 days later) GET NAMES - WRITE DOWN TIMES - AND REMEMBER EVERYONE HAS A BOSS - GET THEIR NAME - and STICK TO YOUR GUNS - just keep going up the ladder until you have a letter mailed, and JUST to be on the safe side - have a FAX number, and an EMAIL for them - and then the DAY after you would initially speak to Miss B or her BOss - WRITE THEM A LETTER with all the above information in it - and let them know you are serious. If you can't do that - I'll help. Just get the info. [/QUOTE]
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