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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 108351"><p>I would of lost it. Another perfect example of what I was trying to get across to my neighbor who works at a charter school. She is the one that told me a certain boy is suspended everytime he comes in the office. Me...being on the other side here KNOW that others can start things and difficult child would get in trouble. AND the same neigbors daughter said she kicked someone and then giggled and "mom" just blew it off because it is "unusual" for HER daughter to do that.</p><p></p><p>Excuse me. I learned a while ago, if school calls and says difficult child did something my FIRST question is, "what led up to this?" Because 9 out of 10 times it is another student who has done something, over and over CAUSING difficult child to react. What, your son was suppose to sit there and get abused? Where was the teacher or supervison when he was up against the wall? They are sure to be there the minute difficult child reacts..what about while the abuse is happening? No, NO, No...I would be there. I would be sure to look at the statements. I would be sure difficult child writes on his statement exactly what happened. Seeing he is on probably, I would make sure the PO knows exactly what happened. Seems to me difficult child had some good self control to let it get to that point and not react more harshly. I would be at school and make sure that other boy is not allowed anywhere near difficult child. I would be sure the teachers, supervisors are aware of this. I would be doing something.</p><p></p><p>The actions of others can take a perfectly well behaved child, difficult child or not, and cause reactions that can label them for a long time.</p><p></p><p>You are much calmer than I would be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 108351"] I would of lost it. Another perfect example of what I was trying to get across to my neighbor who works at a charter school. She is the one that told me a certain boy is suspended everytime he comes in the office. Me...being on the other side here KNOW that others can start things and difficult child would get in trouble. AND the same neigbors daughter said she kicked someone and then giggled and "mom" just blew it off because it is "unusual" for HER daughter to do that. Excuse me. I learned a while ago, if school calls and says difficult child did something my FIRST question is, "what led up to this?" Because 9 out of 10 times it is another student who has done something, over and over CAUSING difficult child to react. What, your son was suppose to sit there and get abused? Where was the teacher or supervison when he was up against the wall? They are sure to be there the minute difficult child reacts..what about while the abuse is happening? No, NO, No...I would be there. I would be sure to look at the statements. I would be sure difficult child writes on his statement exactly what happened. Seeing he is on probably, I would make sure the PO knows exactly what happened. Seems to me difficult child had some good self control to let it get to that point and not react more harshly. I would be at school and make sure that other boy is not allowed anywhere near difficult child. I would be sure the teachers, supervisors are aware of this. I would be doing something. The actions of others can take a perfectly well behaved child, difficult child or not, and cause reactions that can label them for a long time. You are much calmer than I would be. [/QUOTE]
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