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<blockquote data-quote="AllStressedOut" data-source="post: 70648" data-attributes="member: 3837"><p>Alright, here is the most recent version, school references deleted and spaces inserted. I know, I know, I'm still obsessing! It is OKAY to ignore me! I may skip sendint it all together and just show up in the morning with him in tow and his most recent picture taken at the beginning of summer. Walk to the nurse and show her, then walk to his teacher and show her and say "difficult child said he was given a cupcake and capri sun yesterday. Notice anything wrong?"</p><p></p><p>"difficult child's face looked a little puffy this afternoon so I asked him if he had eaten anything that he wasn't supposed to and he said Sean gave him a cupcake and you gave him a capri sun. He also has an upset stomach. I'm puzzled as to how this could happen. I was very specific that he has had allergic reactions to an unknown food, cake was even a food I listed as a possible culprit. I explained he breaks out in hives and his face swells.</p><p> </p><p>We spoke last night about getting the 504 done quickly to cover this. Just in case, I was very specific that he only eat foods we send and that he even be watched closely in the lunchroom to avoid him sneaking foods. I'm baffled, with all of this communication, some just last night, why he was given a cupcake and capri sun during class today. If his behavioral problems were after consuming this food, his blood sugar level could have attributed to them.</p><p> </p><p>While the neuropsychologist may have changed his conduct disorders, the blood test that showed he is a reactive hypoglycemic is still accurate.</p><p> </p><p>I'm trying not to get overly upset over this, but I honestly feel if this were your child, you would be upset this happened.</p><p> </p><p>I have explained to difficult child about his diet and his most recent allergic reactions, but as much as I explain, he would prefer to eat the treat. This is why I was so specific in my email to you.</p><p> </p><p>In an email Ms. Principal sent me last week, she suggested that we not have the 504 meeting this week because of how busy the first week is for the teachers, this is why I suggested dates next week.</p><p> </p><p>Until we discover his food allergy and let you know it is okay, please do not give difficult child any food or drink items besides plain water with no flavoring/carbonation/coloring. If a goody bag is given, please be sure to check it for candy/gum, anything that can be eaten or drank, prior to giving it to him. I will bring you some toy treats to give difficult child for days that others celebrate birthdays with food and drinks. If you would prefer for me to make up goody bags for him, to make it more in line with a birthday celebration, I can do that too.</p><p> </p><p>Please know that I'm just trying to take care of my son. If a substitute is present, please be sure they know this about difficult child as well. I'm sorry this email is so lengthy, but I don't know what else to do besides explain as much as possible.</p><p> </p><p>Please understand, this is for his health and safety and when he misbehaves he gets into trouble both at school and home, he doesn't like being in trouble, so ultimately it's for his happiness as well. I just want him to be safe, healthy and happy, when he is at home and at school."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AllStressedOut, post: 70648, member: 3837"] Alright, here is the most recent version, school references deleted and spaces inserted. I know, I know, I'm still obsessing! It is OKAY to ignore me! I may skip sendint it all together and just show up in the morning with him in tow and his most recent picture taken at the beginning of summer. Walk to the nurse and show her, then walk to his teacher and show her and say "difficult child said he was given a cupcake and capri sun yesterday. Notice anything wrong?" "difficult child's face looked a little puffy this afternoon so I asked him if he had eaten anything that he wasn't supposed to and he said Sean gave him a cupcake and you gave him a capri sun. He also has an upset stomach. I'm puzzled as to how this could happen. I was very specific that he has had allergic reactions to an unknown food, cake was even a food I listed as a possible culprit. I explained he breaks out in hives and his face swells. We spoke last night about getting the 504 done quickly to cover this. Just in case, I was very specific that he only eat foods we send and that he even be watched closely in the lunchroom to avoid him sneaking foods. I'm baffled, with all of this communication, some just last night, why he was given a cupcake and capri sun during class today. If his behavioral problems were after consuming this food, his blood sugar level could have attributed to them. While the neuropsychologist may have changed his conduct disorders, the blood test that showed he is a reactive hypoglycemic is still accurate. I'm trying not to get overly upset over this, but I honestly feel if this were your child, you would be upset this happened. I have explained to difficult child about his diet and his most recent allergic reactions, but as much as I explain, he would prefer to eat the treat. This is why I was so specific in my email to you. In an email Ms. Principal sent me last week, she suggested that we not have the 504 meeting this week because of how busy the first week is for the teachers, this is why I suggested dates next week. Until we discover his food allergy and let you know it is okay, please do not give difficult child any food or drink items besides plain water with no flavoring/carbonation/coloring. If a goody bag is given, please be sure to check it for candy/gum, anything that can be eaten or drank, prior to giving it to him. I will bring you some toy treats to give difficult child for days that others celebrate birthdays with food and drinks. If you would prefer for me to make up goody bags for him, to make it more in line with a birthday celebration, I can do that too. Please know that I'm just trying to take care of my son. If a substitute is present, please be sure they know this about difficult child as well. I'm sorry this email is so lengthy, but I don't know what else to do besides explain as much as possible. Please understand, this is for his health and safety and when he misbehaves he gets into trouble both at school and home, he doesn't like being in trouble, so ultimately it's for his happiness as well. I just want him to be safe, healthy and happy, when he is at home and at school." [/QUOTE]
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