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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 391179" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>i hate to be annoying i really do. yet i do not get why any doctor where you are won't do a blood draw for lyme. you can go to any e.r. tell them i think my kid has lyme and they'd do it. it's a round of blood work as i'm sure you know yet it's not a complicated thing to do a blood draw for it. yet if it was lyme you would see other symptoms besides what you are seeing i think. lyme i've heard is really really bad.</p><p> </p><p>you have run the gammet on testing her at this point and for years. if things are coming back negative that's a good thing it really is. although you are so mad right now you could scream look at the positive in it. alot of stuff comes back negative and shows no abnormalities. i'm not saying that the doctor's are right regarding pain etc. yet what i am saying is that it isnt' indicating a huge problem right now. fibro your right, it's cart or horse thing which comes first doesnt' really matter now whether it be anxiety or depression first. fibro is a new diagnosis from what i can tell. a doctor once told me it's symptomatic of depression etc. because we ache when depressed.</p><p> </p><p>besides the few other tests that you named to look into i think at this point you gotta start working on the symptoms of what you see and try your best to relax a bit or your going to get you sick. i know the signs been there done that sort of thing.</p><p> </p><p>i get that you say jess reacts differently trying to hide her pain etc. around doctor's because of certain things or you think due to those. yet i have come to learn my difficult child reacts real different with other ppl. was hard for me to see, admit and say oh my look at this little piece of work. yup some is her disorders yet some is her behavioral manipulation to be honest. don't get mad not saying that's jess, yet susie you are such a good mom you would fly around the world to fix a kid. you really are great. yet i think now besides getting her that blood draw for lyme which i'd fight someone for just to be on the safe side you have to start treating the symptoms of this somewhat if that's possible.</p><p> </p><p>hugs i hope you slept well last night. dont' take what i'm saying wrong you know me and i you. i know where you've been with her the road you have traveled. yet take a deep breath on this one and take a break from it than reapproach it with a clear mind. do what you do best. sit down and think when did this start at what point, start from point a with it, write it all down take the emotion out of it a bit.</p><p> </p><p>doctor's said to me the other day about difficult child what good would come from her getting well?i said what? they said WHY would she wanna get well. there's no benefit right now for her. she's getting out of school, has your total attention, etc. well i got so mad i got in truck slamming doors, etc like a two year old myself. not saying it's the same just saying they went behavioral on me with difficult child i wasnt ready to hear that again. yet at end of day they were right to an extent. an extent. small piece. yet took me two days to calm my crazy ass down to see it. not saying it 's true with-all of it with jess, yet maybe pieces of it are at this point. only you know her best.</p><p> </p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 391179, member: 4514"] i hate to be annoying i really do. yet i do not get why any doctor where you are won't do a blood draw for lyme. you can go to any e.r. tell them i think my kid has lyme and they'd do it. it's a round of blood work as i'm sure you know yet it's not a complicated thing to do a blood draw for it. yet if it was lyme you would see other symptoms besides what you are seeing i think. lyme i've heard is really really bad. you have run the gammet on testing her at this point and for years. if things are coming back negative that's a good thing it really is. although you are so mad right now you could scream look at the positive in it. alot of stuff comes back negative and shows no abnormalities. i'm not saying that the doctor's are right regarding pain etc. yet what i am saying is that it isnt' indicating a huge problem right now. fibro your right, it's cart or horse thing which comes first doesnt' really matter now whether it be anxiety or depression first. fibro is a new diagnosis from what i can tell. a doctor once told me it's symptomatic of depression etc. because we ache when depressed. besides the few other tests that you named to look into i think at this point you gotta start working on the symptoms of what you see and try your best to relax a bit or your going to get you sick. i know the signs been there done that sort of thing. i get that you say jess reacts differently trying to hide her pain etc. around doctor's because of certain things or you think due to those. yet i have come to learn my difficult child reacts real different with other ppl. was hard for me to see, admit and say oh my look at this little piece of work. yup some is her disorders yet some is her behavioral manipulation to be honest. don't get mad not saying that's jess, yet susie you are such a good mom you would fly around the world to fix a kid. you really are great. yet i think now besides getting her that blood draw for lyme which i'd fight someone for just to be on the safe side you have to start treating the symptoms of this somewhat if that's possible. hugs i hope you slept well last night. dont' take what i'm saying wrong you know me and i you. i know where you've been with her the road you have traveled. yet take a deep breath on this one and take a break from it than reapproach it with a clear mind. do what you do best. sit down and think when did this start at what point, start from point a with it, write it all down take the emotion out of it a bit. doctor's said to me the other day about difficult child what good would come from her getting well?i said what? they said WHY would she wanna get well. there's no benefit right now for her. she's getting out of school, has your total attention, etc. well i got so mad i got in truck slamming doors, etc like a two year old myself. not saying it's the same just saying they went behavioral on me with difficult child i wasnt ready to hear that again. yet at end of day they were right to an extent. an extent. small piece. yet took me two days to calm my crazy ass down to see it. not saying it 's true with-all of it with jess, yet maybe pieces of it are at this point. only you know her best. :) [/QUOTE]
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