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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 351293" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Janet</p><p></p><p>I know for a fact bff's husband got a vasectomy. It was shortly after the younger boy was born. Remember, this family lived right across the street and we were there everyday. (think Lucy and Vivian from I Love Lucy) He decided to get it done because he wasn't going to risk having to pay child support for more than 2 kids. I was even present when he showed her the tests results 6 wks later showing his absent sperm count and then again at 6 mos and a year. I saw the darn things myself. Why, cuz he was rubbing it in to bff that she would have no more kids by him.</p><p></p><p>So if Nichole is pregnant, there is no way it's bff's husband. He did all his follow thru appointments and came up neg for sperm each time. Unlike my husband who refused to do the follow up appointments so we didn't know that it didn't take until I became pregnant with Nichole. I am praying <em><strong>really hard</strong></em> there is no pregnancy. This is complicated enough without that being added to the situation.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p><p></p><p>How do you move in with a guy that you know is an abuser, that you not just know he is, but you've seen it and heard it over a period of years?? Simply blows my mind. And how on earth do you possibly get past the fact that you looked up to this "man" as a father/uncle type figure during a majority of your childhood to go to bed with him??? ick ick ick ick ick !!!!! I just can't wrap my mind around those 2 concepts. Nichole was not raised in an abusive home. husband (while he can be a jerk in other ways) treats me with the upmost respect because I won't tolerate anything less.............. I might be able to empathize a bit if she'd jumped into a relationship with some guy she just met to discover he was this way.........Happens sometimes. But to deliberately walk into such a relationship?? Her mind has simply taken vacation, along with her morals. ugh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 351293, member: 84"] Janet I know for a fact bff's husband got a vasectomy. It was shortly after the younger boy was born. Remember, this family lived right across the street and we were there everyday. (think Lucy and Vivian from I Love Lucy) He decided to get it done because he wasn't going to risk having to pay child support for more than 2 kids. I was even present when he showed her the tests results 6 wks later showing his absent sperm count and then again at 6 mos and a year. I saw the darn things myself. Why, cuz he was rubbing it in to bff that she would have no more kids by him. So if Nichole is pregnant, there is no way it's bff's husband. He did all his follow thru appointments and came up neg for sperm each time. Unlike my husband who refused to do the follow up appointments so we didn't know that it didn't take until I became pregnant with Nichole. I am praying [I][B]really hard[/B][/I] there is no pregnancy. This is complicated enough without that being added to the situation.:knockedout: How do you move in with a guy that you know is an abuser, that you not just know he is, but you've seen it and heard it over a period of years?? Simply blows my mind. And how on earth do you possibly get past the fact that you looked up to this "man" as a father/uncle type figure during a majority of your childhood to go to bed with him??? ick ick ick ick ick !!!!! I just can't wrap my mind around those 2 concepts. Nichole was not raised in an abusive home. husband (while he can be a jerk in other ways) treats me with the upmost respect because I won't tolerate anything less.............. I might be able to empathize a bit if she'd jumped into a relationship with some guy she just met to discover he was this way.........Happens sometimes. But to deliberately walk into such a relationship?? Her mind has simply taken vacation, along with her morals. ugh [/QUOTE]
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