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<blockquote data-quote="ck1" data-source="post: 112230" data-attributes="member: 3767"><p>This is what I was thinking but not able to put it nearly as well! What consequences has he already endured? He's under 18, not living at home, not going to school, has he been working?</p><p></p><p>I'm not sure I could even think about him living at home after all of this without some consequences. I think my first steps would be to call his PO, not to help difficult child, but to find out their thoughts. For example, if PO knew he was at home now, would difficult child be arrested for something? Has difficult child been in violation these last few months?</p><p></p><p>Also, it definitely seems like you and husband need to get on the same page. You seem much more realistic and willing to do what may be needed to help your son in the long-run. husband seems like he still wants to baby him?? </p><p></p><p>If you think difficult child has a drug problem, treatment would be a must, before he comes home. A contract between you and difficult child is also a could start.</p><p></p><p>I'm happy to see an update from you...I've been thinking about you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ck1, post: 112230, member: 3767"] This is what I was thinking but not able to put it nearly as well! What consequences has he already endured? He's under 18, not living at home, not going to school, has he been working? I'm not sure I could even think about him living at home after all of this without some consequences. I think my first steps would be to call his PO, not to help difficult child, but to find out their thoughts. For example, if PO knew he was at home now, would difficult child be arrested for something? Has difficult child been in violation these last few months? Also, it definitely seems like you and husband need to get on the same page. You seem much more realistic and willing to do what may be needed to help your son in the long-run. husband seems like he still wants to baby him?? If you think difficult child has a drug problem, treatment would be a must, before he comes home. A contract between you and difficult child is also a could start. I'm happy to see an update from you...I've been thinking about you! [/QUOTE]
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