Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
Game Plan Needed
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="NOLA" data-source="post: 112712" data-attributes="member: 3515"><p>hi guys - thanks for the input (DDD & Deb - you guys did post, it's just that i also listed it on the forum for parent's with-kids out of the house - i need all the advice i can get :smile: </p><p></p><p>i used to think he wasn't really 'addicted' but now i have serious doubts - for 1 thing he's never passed a drug test since he relapsed (3 months after the 1st rehab stint) in Feb '07 - always positive for weed but a couple of times positive for coke and XTC - so it's definitely an issue. i can't imagine he's going to say 'okay, i'll go to rehab' so i'm faced with giving him that as a condition to his return & then him using it as a difficult child excuse to play the martyr he hasnt had a job since June (his boss told me he showed up stoned but his story was he was just very sick he has also turned into a chronic liar </p><p></p><p>ive called the PO to try and find out exactly what kind of punishment hes in store for but were talking about a total circus act can never get a straight answer - Id love to think things would work out with-us just giving him the rules to follow, etc., but I have this nagging voice saying you know better </p><p></p><p>he hasnt called anyway to even ask about coming home for good its just that I want to be armed & ready when he does</p><p></p><p>thanks for keeping us in your prayers - i will do the same</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="NOLA, post: 112712, member: 3515"] hi guys - thanks for the input (DDD & Deb - you guys did post, it's just that i also listed it on the forum for parent's with-kids out of the house - i need all the advice i can get [img]:smile:[/img] i used to think he wasn't really 'addicted' but now i have serious doubts - for 1 thing he's never passed a drug test since he relapsed (3 months after the 1st rehab stint) in Feb '07 - always positive for weed but a couple of times positive for coke and XTC - so it's definitely an issue. i can't imagine he's going to say 'okay, i'll go to rehab' so i'm faced with giving him that as a condition to his return & then him using it as a difficult child excuse to play the martyr he hasnt had a job since June (his boss told me he showed up stoned but his story was he was just very sick he has also turned into a chronic liar ive called the PO to try and find out exactly what kind of punishment hes in store for but were talking about a total circus act can never get a straight answer - Id love to think things would work out with-us just giving him the rules to follow, etc., but I have this nagging voice saying you know better he hasnt called anyway to even ask about coming home for good its just that I want to be armed & ready when he does thanks for keeping us in your prayers - i will do the same [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
Game Plan Needed
Top