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I honestly believe this is going on with difficult child. he spends upto 8 or more hours a day on the stupid Runescape game. I tell him he cannot be on it that long. He lies to me. When i see him on the computer he says "i'm talking with people" Which isn't a lie, since I know with this game you talk to other gamers. He spends time on the phone AND playing the game with other gamers.
His homework - isn't done. School is a fight. He STOLE my credit card and charged $112.65 for this stupid game. And it is NOT the first time.
I tell husband about it and he is totally computer iliterate. No clue about computers in the least. he thinks there is nothing going on.
difficult child doesn't go out much. Says friends all do drugs.
difficult child won't go to baseball clinic, or baseball batting cages - he LOVED baseball.
When i am home I don't let him on it and he hates me. When I work I am sleeping when he comes home from school sometimes. When I am awake he goes from the door directly to the computer. I go to bed. When I get up...he is still on the computer.
I have said 2 hours a day. (much less than 6 - 8 hours a day) But I am not home to enforce it. I work holiday's, weekends...
I printed out the following article and put it on the table when I went to bed yesterday. It was not there when I got up. I am hoping husband saw it. If difficult child did , he may have tossed it. However - difficult child was NOT on the computer when I went to bed OR when I got up. I took the Laptop to work with me, said I needed someone to look at it. He takes it to bed and unless you check he is up until early morning playing. Then first thing in the morning he is back on before school. Now he will more than likely be on the desktop in the morning. But it is old, and very slow. Easier to monitor him because we know where he is.
I am very concerned. All aspects of this article are true to difficult child.
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2009-04-20-gaming-addiction_N.htm
His homework - isn't done. School is a fight. He STOLE my credit card and charged $112.65 for this stupid game. And it is NOT the first time.
I tell husband about it and he is totally computer iliterate. No clue about computers in the least. he thinks there is nothing going on.
difficult child doesn't go out much. Says friends all do drugs.
difficult child won't go to baseball clinic, or baseball batting cages - he LOVED baseball.
When i am home I don't let him on it and he hates me. When I work I am sleeping when he comes home from school sometimes. When I am awake he goes from the door directly to the computer. I go to bed. When I get up...he is still on the computer.
I have said 2 hours a day. (much less than 6 - 8 hours a day) But I am not home to enforce it. I work holiday's, weekends...
I printed out the following article and put it on the table when I went to bed yesterday. It was not there when I got up. I am hoping husband saw it. If difficult child did , he may have tossed it. However - difficult child was NOT on the computer when I went to bed OR when I got up. I took the Laptop to work with me, said I needed someone to look at it. He takes it to bed and unless you check he is up until early morning playing. Then first thing in the morning he is back on before school. Now he will more than likely be on the desktop in the morning. But it is old, and very slow. Easier to monitor him because we know where he is.
I am very concerned. All aspects of this article are true to difficult child.
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2009-04-20-gaming-addiction_N.htm