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Gee, when you allow unlimited access to an obsession
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 148078" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong>Susie,</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong>You know wm has many of the same types of obsessions. I would no sooner bring wm back into my home if foster mum or dad allowed wm to continue with these obessions or steal from them. (And wm has on a regular basis; however he had substantial consequences for those behaviors.)</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong>difficult child is making poor choices; the adult caregivers are feeding into, or at the very least allowing him to continue to make those choices. You are not in a position to stop this. I have very little influence in the day to day "parenting" of wm - just the way it is when a difficult child is in a different placement. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong>I have had to come to terms with this. If I feel wm is floundering or in danger I speak up. However, I've had to let go of many of the ways I would go about raising my son or dealing with his many antics. It wasn't working anyway.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong>Just some thoughts for you this morning.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Teal"><strong></strong></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 148078, member: 393"] [COLOR=Teal][B]Susie, You know wm has many of the same types of obsessions. I would no sooner bring wm back into my home if foster mum or dad allowed wm to continue with these obessions or steal from them. (And wm has on a regular basis; however he had substantial consequences for those behaviors.) difficult child is making poor choices; the adult caregivers are feeding into, or at the very least allowing him to continue to make those choices. You are not in a position to stop this. I have very little influence in the day to day "parenting" of wm - just the way it is when a difficult child is in a different placement. I have had to come to terms with this. If I feel wm is floundering or in danger I speak up. However, I've had to let go of many of the ways I would go about raising my son or dealing with his many antics. It wasn't working anyway. Just some thoughts for you this morning. [/B][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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