I don't know if it's because I'm nearly at the end of my rope and am seeing it more but there seems to be a lot more frustration going on around here than usual. Seasonal maybe? So..........if there is something (or two or forty) frustrating you, post it here. Dog peeing on the floor? Vent. difficult child peeing on the house? Vent. husband being a ginormous horses b-u-t-t? Vent. Checkout girl break your eggs? Let it out. Let loose, yell, scream, kick, whatever you need. I'll start! My husband is way too softhearted for his own good. He told difficult child he had to be out at the end of the year. Now it's, well, maybe we should have him stay for a bit longer so he can learn some lifeskills, get a job/apartment and blah blah blah blah blah. difficult child has had a freaking TEAM of people try to teach him lifeskills the last few YEARS!!!! How the **** is a couple of months going to make a difference???? Somewhat of the same subject....some of our team members (the ones that don't deal with/see him on a frequent basis) think we should wait also. How many flipping times do I need to tell them that I CAN'T TAKE MUCH MORE OF THIS before they get it? Are these professionals (who have always seemed to have difficult child's number) finally getting snowed by difficult child? And what part, exactly, of I'M DONE do they not get?????? I recently went to an estate auction of a man who was good friends with my Dad/Step-mom. I bought a few nice things. I don't dare put them out because difficult child will do SOMETHING to/with them. husband knows this and agreed with me when I brought it up. So why in the $%^^&*&()_)*I*(&&(* is he being so reluctant to put difficult child out??? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH *whew* Ok.....next!