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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 580247" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I'm sorry. As you know I don't believe in geographic cures as, in my humble opinion, the problems remain with-o treatment and simply resurface depending upon the environment. As you know my oldest ADHD difficult child is almost fifty and was dismissed from the public school system because she could not sit quietly etc. and therefore interfered with the disciplined routine for her first grade class. As a veteran participating parent from at least six schools I do not find the rejection of J's behavior to be at all surprising. Locally if a child shows physical violence, throws a tantrum, makes inappropriate noises etc. they are taken from the classroom and when necessary physicall "helped" to make the walk to the Counselors room. Children who have been evaluated and have mental health problems are in special classes with aides. Telling others "he has ADHD" does not solve the problem for him. J needs a complete neuro'psychological evaluation and professional guidelines on what is best for his future. He has so much potential and it breaks my heart to think that he will soon identify himself as a "bad boy". He is not, of course, a "bad boy" but he is not able to conform to the acceptable pattern of behavior consistently. You need a top quality professional to help you choose the course of his future and yours. Meanwhile I am rooting for you and particularly for J. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 580247, member: 35"] I'm sorry. As you know I don't believe in geographic cures as, in my humble opinion, the problems remain with-o treatment and simply resurface depending upon the environment. As you know my oldest ADHD difficult child is almost fifty and was dismissed from the public school system because she could not sit quietly etc. and therefore interfered with the disciplined routine for her first grade class. As a veteran participating parent from at least six schools I do not find the rejection of J's behavior to be at all surprising. Locally if a child shows physical violence, throws a tantrum, makes inappropriate noises etc. they are taken from the classroom and when necessary physicall "helped" to make the walk to the Counselors room. Children who have been evaluated and have mental health problems are in special classes with aides. Telling others "he has ADHD" does not solve the problem for him. J needs a complete neuro'psychological evaluation and professional guidelines on what is best for his future. He has so much potential and it breaks my heart to think that he will soon identify himself as a "bad boy". He is not, of course, a "bad boy" but he is not able to conform to the acceptable pattern of behavior consistently. You need a top quality professional to help you choose the course of his future and yours. Meanwhile I am rooting for you and particularly for J. DDD [/QUOTE]
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