I can't believe that Emily's surgery is only 4 days away... I am starting to get very anxious about it - I know that it is going to be VERY hard for me to see her go thru all of this, but know it has to be done in order for her to not be so sick all the time. I have total confidence in her urologist but yet I worry about her being under anesthia for so long (4-6 hrs.) when she won't even be quite 4 months old. Does anyone have any advice as to how to make it easier for me to cope these last few days leading up to it? I can tell I will probably be a basketcase by the time we are admitted Monday night.