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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 566375" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Thank you ALL. Nancy, you are totally right that my mom isn't facing it because she hasn't a clue what to do. Part of the problem is that bro is actually vastly more stable and sane than exsil. Exsil has no marbles and her elevator barely gets off the ground. We are all terrified at the effect this has one niece. Niece is a delight, but her mom's behavior clearly leaves permanent harm on niece. I just pray taht it won't be too much longer before bro and exsl both crash completely and then niece can be pulled out of that whole mess and put into therapy and a stable home. </p><p></p><p>Part of me is haunted by worry that with-o husband and I, and our kdis, to take out his frustrations and need for drama on, he will have turned this either to very long (and hour or more isn't unheard of by a long shot) rant about exsil or to taking it all out on niece and his dogs. </p><p></p><p>I am actually proud because I have not let this worry draw me into his circle in order to attempt to save niece. I am surprised that it hasn't been hard to not let this worry draw me back. I guess the therapy/meetings are helpful in ways I never suspected. </p><p></p><p>I don't generally as my mom about bro, exsil and/or niece. I figure that the less I know the better I am. Mom often tells me, and this time niece daughter, and I don't cut them off or change topics. This time think my mom was telling me in order to let me know that he is having some real problems. Not sure I could do anything, but I can listen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 566375, member: 1233"] Thank you ALL. Nancy, you are totally right that my mom isn't facing it because she hasn't a clue what to do. Part of the problem is that bro is actually vastly more stable and sane than exsil. Exsil has no marbles and her elevator barely gets off the ground. We are all terrified at the effect this has one niece. Niece is a delight, but her mom's behavior clearly leaves permanent harm on niece. I just pray taht it won't be too much longer before bro and exsl both crash completely and then niece can be pulled out of that whole mess and put into therapy and a stable home. Part of me is haunted by worry that with-o husband and I, and our kdis, to take out his frustrations and need for drama on, he will have turned this either to very long (and hour or more isn't unheard of by a long shot) rant about exsil or to taking it all out on niece and his dogs. I am actually proud because I have not let this worry draw me into his circle in order to attempt to save niece. I am surprised that it hasn't been hard to not let this worry draw me back. I guess the therapy/meetings are helpful in ways I never suspected. I don't generally as my mom about bro, exsil and/or niece. I figure that the less I know the better I am. Mom often tells me, and this time niece daughter, and I don't cut them off or change topics. This time think my mom was telling me in order to let me know that he is having some real problems. Not sure I could do anything, but I can listen. [/QUOTE]
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