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GFGmom Retired @ 46 against everyone's advice. ,,,.how dumb is that?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 459622" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Seems like a stupid crazy move to me. Being a difficult child with a real gift for getting by with scamming the system, she might actually work it out until she realizes that working as a nurse is HARD work and can be very unpleasant - plus she will be dealing with people who can tell her no or make a report of things she does and those people will stand a good chance of being believed (patients and patients families after she gets her degree and a job). Not like inmates who are often not believed no matter what.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you have some detachment, you sure need it right now. I would NOT take the Warden's word as definitely saying that she can come back (if she actually spoke to him - you just never know with a difficult child). He stated a fact - they always need experienced people. He did NOT say that they would welcome her back.</p><p></p><p>Having once erased that CO/inmate line, it would be totally expected that she has done it many more times. Just like if you start a relationship with a married man and he leaves his wife for you, he is NOT going to stay faithful 99% of the time - he is going to cheat on you like he did on the previous wife. So she may likely be in a position to be allowed to quit or to be fired. Even MORE likely, some other CO or inmate knows that she has been involved with one or more inmates in the past, maybe in the present and they are holding it over her head and she thinks if seh can get away from the prison then she can escape the blackmail or whatever. Just seems more logical than suddenly quitting her job to go to nursing school with-o even knowing if she will get into nursing school.</p><p>Whatever happens, I am sorry you have to be aware of her conflama.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 459622, member: 1233"] Seems like a stupid crazy move to me. Being a difficult child with a real gift for getting by with scamming the system, she might actually work it out until she realizes that working as a nurse is HARD work and can be very unpleasant - plus she will be dealing with people who can tell her no or make a report of things she does and those people will stand a good chance of being believed (patients and patients families after she gets her degree and a job). Not like inmates who are often not believed no matter what. I am glad you have some detachment, you sure need it right now. I would NOT take the Warden's word as definitely saying that she can come back (if she actually spoke to him - you just never know with a difficult child). He stated a fact - they always need experienced people. He did NOT say that they would welcome her back. Having once erased that CO/inmate line, it would be totally expected that she has done it many more times. Just like if you start a relationship with a married man and he leaves his wife for you, he is NOT going to stay faithful 99% of the time - he is going to cheat on you like he did on the previous wife. So she may likely be in a position to be allowed to quit or to be fired. Even MORE likely, some other CO or inmate knows that she has been involved with one or more inmates in the past, maybe in the present and they are holding it over her head and she thinks if seh can get away from the prison then she can escape the blackmail or whatever. Just seems more logical than suddenly quitting her job to go to nursing school with-o even knowing if she will get into nursing school. Whatever happens, I am sorry you have to be aware of her conflama. [/QUOTE]
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