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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 609052" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Wow, you had an eventful night. Hopefully this is a bit of eye-opener for your difficult child. Unfortunately it can also be, that he decides to be her saviour. Or believe the stories she will likely spin when they get to contact next time. With domestic abuse, it often is quite a merry go round times n, before abused one gets enough.</p><p></p><p>I do not know what your police officers are smoking, or if your culture really is so different, but I have very different time to believe, they don't see lots of domestic violence with female being the violent one. I do know that there I live, 40 % of serious (meaning deadly or serious injury) domestic violence is committed by women and in all of our modern studies bigger percentage of men tells they have been abused by their spouse during the last year than of women. Difference is bigger with younger people. When they asked teens, it came out that a boy had almost a double a risk experience physical abuse in hands of his girlfriend than for a girl in the hands of her boyfriend. I'm sure these are different from culture to culture, but I bet that also in North America it is not only the men who commit domestic violence.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child's last relationship was also violent and girlfriend was the violent one. It wasn't luckily as serious as your son's situation and luckily she broke up with him last summer, but my son was also totally incapable of standing his ground with her. She luckily didn't use knives or scissors or anything, more just scratching and hitting and verbal abuse. With them, there was lso a big size difference. difficult child is tall, much closer to six and half than six feet and pro athlete. His ex-girlfriend is short, not even 5,5 feet tall and petite. Maybe that was part of why she felt she had right to hit difficult child.</p><p></p><p>We got lucky when ex-girlfriend left difficult child. I already did worry that they may stay together and maybe even have kids some day. My difficult child really is big enough to defend himself if he felt desperate enough (and if there were not weapons involved), but just a though of having a grandchild, whose mother has tendency to be violent is scary. Even the most petite adult women is huge compared to a young child.</p><p></p><p>It is really good to her that GFH's parents were helpful, but prepare to GFH turning also that to some sobstory of parents who always think worst about her and never cared for her and that your difficult child can easily buy that. But hopefully they keep her for few days and your son has some time to think and get his head straight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 609052, member: 14557"] Wow, you had an eventful night. Hopefully this is a bit of eye-opener for your difficult child. Unfortunately it can also be, that he decides to be her saviour. Or believe the stories she will likely spin when they get to contact next time. With domestic abuse, it often is quite a merry go round times n, before abused one gets enough. I do not know what your police officers are smoking, or if your culture really is so different, but I have very different time to believe, they don't see lots of domestic violence with female being the violent one. I do know that there I live, 40 % of serious (meaning deadly or serious injury) domestic violence is committed by women and in all of our modern studies bigger percentage of men tells they have been abused by their spouse during the last year than of women. Difference is bigger with younger people. When they asked teens, it came out that a boy had almost a double a risk experience physical abuse in hands of his girlfriend than for a girl in the hands of her boyfriend. I'm sure these are different from culture to culture, but I bet that also in North America it is not only the men who commit domestic violence. My difficult child's last relationship was also violent and girlfriend was the violent one. It wasn't luckily as serious as your son's situation and luckily she broke up with him last summer, but my son was also totally incapable of standing his ground with her. She luckily didn't use knives or scissors or anything, more just scratching and hitting and verbal abuse. With them, there was lso a big size difference. difficult child is tall, much closer to six and half than six feet and pro athlete. His ex-girlfriend is short, not even 5,5 feet tall and petite. Maybe that was part of why she felt she had right to hit difficult child. We got lucky when ex-girlfriend left difficult child. I already did worry that they may stay together and maybe even have kids some day. My difficult child really is big enough to defend himself if he felt desperate enough (and if there were not weapons involved), but just a though of having a grandchild, whose mother has tendency to be violent is scary. Even the most petite adult women is huge compared to a young child. It is really good to her that GFH's parents were helpful, but prepare to GFH turning also that to some sobstory of parents who always think worst about her and never cared for her and that your difficult child can easily buy that. But hopefully they keep her for few days and your son has some time to think and get his head straight. [/QUOTE]
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