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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 609085" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>You are doing well. I too think that idea that you would have bailed her out right away would had been little bit too much, after all your son and she really need to de-escalate the situation and not meet right away, but notifying her parents was a kind thing to do. I certainly hope that if my kid ends up in jail someone tells me.</p><p></p><p>Detachment is prefered method to deal for many in this board. But it is not end all, be all. It is just one way to cope with difficult situation. You make your choices and you don't have to defend them to anyone here. I know we may sometimes come off as little pushy and know-it-all, but of course we can't know what are the best decisions in your situation. But we do bring some different point of views to the table everyone based on our own experiences. But you should of course not take those things as something you had to do or that you should act against your own wisdom or your own values, because someone else has found that doing it in certain ways makes her life more bearable and even enjoyable. That something works for someone doesn't always mean it would work for others.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 609085, member: 14557"] You are doing well. I too think that idea that you would have bailed her out right away would had been little bit too much, after all your son and she really need to de-escalate the situation and not meet right away, but notifying her parents was a kind thing to do. I certainly hope that if my kid ends up in jail someone tells me. Detachment is prefered method to deal for many in this board. But it is not end all, be all. It is just one way to cope with difficult situation. You make your choices and you don't have to defend them to anyone here. I know we may sometimes come off as little pushy and know-it-all, but of course we can't know what are the best decisions in your situation. But we do bring some different point of views to the table everyone based on our own experiences. But you should of course not take those things as something you had to do or that you should act against your own wisdom or your own values, because someone else has found that doing it in certain ways makes her life more bearable and even enjoyable. That something works for someone doesn't always mean it would work for others. [/QUOTE]
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