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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 513884" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>TM, </p><p></p><p>I think you did the absolute right thing. I say that because I could literally write a book on family snobbery and selective dysfunctional behavior as it pertains to taking a dump on individuals that really don't deserve it - et al. Cross reference - see my Mothers Family. What a load of manure. </p><p></p><p>So imagine you were to "make nice" with the girl in the grocery? You know what that really would do? Nothing. It would be nice to THINK it would be the beginning of a healing spot, but it's doubtful that after she was raised by a pack of hyenahs - She could go home to her den and say " OH I saw TM today and we had lunch and we chatted and we got along very well!! It was GREAT!!" At that point the nimble minded pack would have to open their mouths wide enough to remove all doubt they are from the idiot clan, and so much condesention would spew out - it just wouldn't be worth tyring to mend a chance relationship with a distant step relative. I'd sooner have a relationship with an utter and completely NICE stranger with other dysfunctions in THEIR family so when I chose to I could walk away. Know what I mean?? been there done that - no thanks - door mat says GO AWAY.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 513884, member: 4964"] TM, I think you did the absolute right thing. I say that because I could literally write a book on family snobbery and selective dysfunctional behavior as it pertains to taking a dump on individuals that really don't deserve it - et al. Cross reference - see my Mothers Family. What a load of manure. So imagine you were to "make nice" with the girl in the grocery? You know what that really would do? Nothing. It would be nice to THINK it would be the beginning of a healing spot, but it's doubtful that after she was raised by a pack of hyenahs - She could go home to her den and say " OH I saw TM today and we had lunch and we chatted and we got along very well!! It was GREAT!!" At that point the nimble minded pack would have to open their mouths wide enough to remove all doubt they are from the idiot clan, and so much condesention would spew out - it just wouldn't be worth tyring to mend a chance relationship with a distant step relative. I'd sooner have a relationship with an utter and completely NICE stranger with other dysfunctions in THEIR family so when I chose to I could walk away. Know what I mean?? been there done that - no thanks - door mat says GO AWAY. [/QUOTE]
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