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Girlfriends past drug use.
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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 627491" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>I guess I am troubled about your attitude that your girlfriend should be ashamed of her past. I would think that experimenting with drugs but then walking away from them is something to be celebrated . . . not be ashamed of. I guess having a daughter who is a drug user colors my judgment. If she truly ever left drugs behind it would something to be proud of and I wouldn't want someone telling her that she should be ashamed of her past.</p><p></p><p>The fact that your girlfriend still is friends with drug users is troublesome. Have you ever asked her why she is still friends with them?</p><p></p><p>You and your girlfriend need help with communication and learning to trust each other. That is something a good couples therapist would be able to help you with. She may not want to talk to you about it because she feels you judge her. I also still think it was wrong of you to check her emails. I couldn't imagine my husband invading my privacy like that. </p><p></p><p>Since you say that you love her very much, I would say that you should try to fix the relationship. Moving out is probably a good idea, though. I think that you could both use some space right now.</p><p></p><p>I am going to change my user name to Dear Abby. LOL</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 627491, member: 1967"] I guess I am troubled about your attitude that your girlfriend should be ashamed of her past. I would think that experimenting with drugs but then walking away from them is something to be celebrated . . . not be ashamed of. I guess having a daughter who is a drug user colors my judgment. If she truly ever left drugs behind it would something to be proud of and I wouldn't want someone telling her that she should be ashamed of her past. The fact that your girlfriend still is friends with drug users is troublesome. Have you ever asked her why she is still friends with them? You and your girlfriend need help with communication and learning to trust each other. That is something a good couples therapist would be able to help you with. She may not want to talk to you about it because she feels you judge her. I also still think it was wrong of you to check her emails. I couldn't imagine my husband invading my privacy like that. Since you say that you love her very much, I would say that you should try to fix the relationship. Moving out is probably a good idea, though. I think that you could both use some space right now. I am going to change my user name to Dear Abby. LOL ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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