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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 212619" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>Hi kind and lovely Mother,</p><p>I just found this place myself and I am so happy to read about how well your children are doing in school and how much you are struggling with them as a parent elsewhere. I have one child and very recently had a terrible month where I had to ask for some help. Apparently when kids are doing well at school and not so much at home the teachers and team at school may not be concerned...but if you were to ask the district psycologist and the social worker for your district it maybe possible to get some in home therapy either through the DOE or DOH. </p><p>In my opinion the quallity of our childrens developement is to important not to ask for the help after all some of what we are having trouble with are the sorts of things that sort out well with a behavour plan.</p><p>Parenting is a proformance art and when the members have such challenges as you discribe or the realitive simplicity of my household what harm is there in getting outside input really?</p><p>Also when our kids have this quirkie uniquenesses it is oour job to acquaint them with the type of people who can and will be available to help them through out thier lives as needed. I am looking at the next phase when college and all the challenges that will come with that for my ADHD son. I am hoping that the fact that he has established good relationships and learned that when one person isn't helpful find a new one who maybe will be his ticket to getting the help he needs on his own...or that he will continue to ask me to get it for him as he does now.</p><p>When I did get a crissis intervention at the school over his recent inappropriate behavor with me (swearing and pushing) he was totally stoic for the first session, began to respond in the second and was engaged and willing to accept intensive family therapy in the third. He said afterward that he felt better and he did want to get the help.</p><p>You have a few differant beings with each their own needs and perspectives...and I think you would save yourself alot of finding out by braille by getting someone to </p><p>give you the tools that are available and which you can learn and pick up and in a context where your children will not be ganging up on you because they can.</p><p>One of you...three of them.</p><p>THis way you will have the tools and more knnowledge about what opitions to look intoo and the person helping you will not be advising you in general...they can </p><p>enjoy the smbiance of your world and help you to take the group in hand and oh what a relief!</p><p>I hope that you are in the care of a specialist for your children taking medications and that you are talking with either that one or the nurse readily over the behavour issues. THree days is a long time to be upset at that age and I do not think you need to guess if you are in the right care...just call and ask. No medical person is going to ignor such if you call. </p><p>Glade to read about your situation. Hope to read about a terrific and unexspected outcome later.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 212619, member: 6271"] Hi kind and lovely Mother, I just found this place myself and I am so happy to read about how well your children are doing in school and how much you are struggling with them as a parent elsewhere. I have one child and very recently had a terrible month where I had to ask for some help. Apparently when kids are doing well at school and not so much at home the teachers and team at school may not be concerned...but if you were to ask the district psycologist and the social worker for your district it maybe possible to get some in home therapy either through the DOE or DOH. In my opinion the quallity of our childrens developement is to important not to ask for the help after all some of what we are having trouble with are the sorts of things that sort out well with a behavour plan. Parenting is a proformance art and when the members have such challenges as you discribe or the realitive simplicity of my household what harm is there in getting outside input really? Also when our kids have this quirkie uniquenesses it is oour job to acquaint them with the type of people who can and will be available to help them through out thier lives as needed. I am looking at the next phase when college and all the challenges that will come with that for my ADHD son. I am hoping that the fact that he has established good relationships and learned that when one person isn't helpful find a new one who maybe will be his ticket to getting the help he needs on his own...or that he will continue to ask me to get it for him as he does now. When I did get a crissis intervention at the school over his recent inappropriate behavor with me (swearing and pushing) he was totally stoic for the first session, began to respond in the second and was engaged and willing to accept intensive family therapy in the third. He said afterward that he felt better and he did want to get the help. You have a few differant beings with each their own needs and perspectives...and I think you would save yourself alot of finding out by braille by getting someone to give you the tools that are available and which you can learn and pick up and in a context where your children will not be ganging up on you because they can. One of you...three of them. THis way you will have the tools and more knnowledge about what opitions to look intoo and the person helping you will not be advising you in general...they can enjoy the smbiance of your world and help you to take the group in hand and oh what a relief! I hope that you are in the care of a specialist for your children taking medications and that you are talking with either that one or the nurse readily over the behavour issues. THree days is a long time to be upset at that age and I do not think you need to guess if you are in the right care...just call and ask. No medical person is going to ignor such if you call. Glade to read about your situation. Hope to read about a terrific and unexspected outcome later. [/QUOTE]
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