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<blockquote data-quote="therese005us" data-source="post: 290336" data-attributes="member: 7416"><p>Well, good morning Sharon and i hope you do have a lovely summer day.</p><p>We had a rather frosty and cold beginning to our day, and it was cool and breezy most of the day.</p><p>I did manage to get the washng machine going and get some washing done, but most of the day was spent trying to establish some help for cherub.</p><p>She disclosed to me this morning that daddy had been interferring with her just a fortnight ago, after the first disclosure and disastrous interview with the police. Anally!!!! </p><p>so, I was back on the phoen to the Community Worker and also tried to ring the social worker as well. Once I got on to her i very quickly learned that there is no file on the cherub because the police told them that she wouldn't disclose. I said, but she disclosed to me, isn't that enough? she just kept quoting this or that ...xyz Act. There are no further concerns because bio mum has cooperated with them and has agreed to keep the children well supervised from the daddy... no she doesn't! She has protected her child by sending her to me - but i have to let her go back on weekends - oh, she didn't know that! But even so, they're not taking any action because there is no matter for concern - we just went round in circles. How I held my tongue and patience, I don't know. I did suggest she go and cut his hands off!</p><p>I did ask her why it wasn't enough that a child spoke up and asked for help in a serious matter, why she still has to repeat it to someone else before it is investigated. She quoted the privacy Act and this Act etc. etc. i told her I was taking her to the police again, and she said that's fine, they would contact the Dept. and the Dept would act in due process..... Ho hum!! pray I don't have to return her on friday, and that the other two stay safe. i wish I had gone to get them now yesterday, even though it would have been hard to settle cherub to school with the extras. At least they would have been safe...</p><p>I can feel my asthma getting worse already.</p><p>the house is gettign messy again before my eyes.</p><p>i can't sleep or settle.</p><p> </p><p>the community worker who came out yesterday is on to it though, he's gone to the top regarding her safety. And his wife is a community worker also, she's starting at the bottom. and sicne I've now told them about a further disclosure they are really getting serious about it. So, hopefully, something will happen.</p><p> </p><p>I'm thinking the encopresis might disappear without further medical assistance after this is sorted. Poor little cherub.</p><p> </p><p>Any suggestions?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="therese005us, post: 290336, member: 7416"] Well, good morning Sharon and i hope you do have a lovely summer day. We had a rather frosty and cold beginning to our day, and it was cool and breezy most of the day. I did manage to get the washng machine going and get some washing done, but most of the day was spent trying to establish some help for cherub. She disclosed to me this morning that daddy had been interferring with her just a fortnight ago, after the first disclosure and disastrous interview with the police. Anally!!!! so, I was back on the phoen to the Community Worker and also tried to ring the social worker as well. Once I got on to her i very quickly learned that there is no file on the cherub because the police told them that she wouldn't disclose. I said, but she disclosed to me, isn't that enough? she just kept quoting this or that ...xyz Act. There are no further concerns because bio mum has cooperated with them and has agreed to keep the children well supervised from the daddy... no she doesn't! She has protected her child by sending her to me - but i have to let her go back on weekends - oh, she didn't know that! But even so, they're not taking any action because there is no matter for concern - we just went round in circles. How I held my tongue and patience, I don't know. I did suggest she go and cut his hands off! I did ask her why it wasn't enough that a child spoke up and asked for help in a serious matter, why she still has to repeat it to someone else before it is investigated. She quoted the privacy Act and this Act etc. etc. i told her I was taking her to the police again, and she said that's fine, they would contact the Dept. and the Dept would act in due process..... Ho hum!! pray I don't have to return her on friday, and that the other two stay safe. i wish I had gone to get them now yesterday, even though it would have been hard to settle cherub to school with the extras. At least they would have been safe... I can feel my asthma getting worse already. the house is gettign messy again before my eyes. i can't sleep or settle. the community worker who came out yesterday is on to it though, he's gone to the top regarding her safety. And his wife is a community worker also, she's starting at the bottom. and sicne I've now told them about a further disclosure they are really getting serious about it. So, hopefully, something will happen. I'm thinking the encopresis might disappear without further medical assistance after this is sorted. Poor little cherub. Any suggestions? [/QUOTE]
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