lovemysons
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She asked if difficult child had ever had a problem with addiction...as he says, "No".
I said, "OMG YES!"
They are apparently trying to remove the pain medications they have been giving him and can find no reason for his latest ailment.
I ended up putting the Dr on the phone with husband who shared how difficult child has been addicted to pain medications/alcohol/benzo's for yrs now and this "hospital hopping" is nothing new. husband also let her know that we can no longer enable him or take care of him. It is time for him to grow up and take care of himself.
easy child apparently went and visited difficult child today. Rubbed his feet and back according to difficult child. easy child is going to massage therapy school along with being a senior in college. I guess he called easy child and she decided it was worth the trip to see him in the hospital.
I am not running to his rescue though...the last call I got from him earlier stated that I am his mom for life and have a "duty" to take care of him. I wish he would see his "duty" as a father to his 3 beautiful children. But all he wants is another "fix".
I am still processing Signorina's post to me about Letting Go and not being responsible for difficult child's choices or the outcome.
I have to take care of myself in this process...I am trying to stay positive.
Thank you all for the support you've given me in recent times.
Love you guys,
LMS
ps...I "think" the Dr's are going to have him admitted into another psychiatric hospital.
I said, "OMG YES!"
They are apparently trying to remove the pain medications they have been giving him and can find no reason for his latest ailment.
I ended up putting the Dr on the phone with husband who shared how difficult child has been addicted to pain medications/alcohol/benzo's for yrs now and this "hospital hopping" is nothing new. husband also let her know that we can no longer enable him or take care of him. It is time for him to grow up and take care of himself.
easy child apparently went and visited difficult child today. Rubbed his feet and back according to difficult child. easy child is going to massage therapy school along with being a senior in college. I guess he called easy child and she decided it was worth the trip to see him in the hospital.
I am not running to his rescue though...the last call I got from him earlier stated that I am his mom for life and have a "duty" to take care of him. I wish he would see his "duty" as a father to his 3 beautiful children. But all he wants is another "fix".
I am still processing Signorina's post to me about Letting Go and not being responsible for difficult child's choices or the outcome.
I have to take care of myself in this process...I am trying to stay positive.
Thank you all for the support you've given me in recent times.
Love you guys,
LMS
ps...I "think" the Dr's are going to have him admitted into another psychiatric hospital.