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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 242316" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>I'll take all the best wishes I can get! Thanks. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>My nerves are shot. I've been sick for a week and feel like crud. Whine, whine, whine. Right? Our difficult child just got here to have a visit with her son. That's fine. I started telling her about these medical issue's and the dr. visits I have taken HER son to, that she didn't even ask what was wrong. She knew he was at the Dr. yesterday and today and didn't bother to ask. As I'm telling her about the visits, she starts texting someone! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /> I stopped talking and she says, "go ahead, I can still listen. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /> I told her no, finish, her texting is distracting to me. She laughs. As soon as I finish telling her everything which was pretty quick really, she tells her son, I need to go outside and make a phone call. I cracked the door so I could listen. Right away she says.. Aiden has an enlarged heart muscle. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /></p><p></p><p>Everything is about her or what attention / sympathy she can garner for herself. Evil me, I had something on the line outside, walked right past her and said loud enough for the other person to hear, I didn't say he DID have an enlarged heart muscle, it's something they are going to look at. She then says, I didn't say that. Okay, right.</p><p></p><p>I still see her as so self centered. Texting while I'm talking, running to make a phone call right away.</p><p></p><p>We just had a little (ha!) talk. She seems to think her son is acting out because of his chaotic life, just what do you expect? Well yes, he has had a chaotic life. I reminded her that his behavior is exactly what we experienced with her and she most definitely did not have a chaotic life. What would she do differently to help him out?</p><p></p><p>She absolutely would not do ANYTHING like I did for sure. She would BEND. She would homeschool and allow him to be himself.</p><p></p><p>I so worry for this child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 242316, member: 30"] I'll take all the best wishes I can get! Thanks. :) My nerves are shot. I've been sick for a week and feel like crud. Whine, whine, whine. Right? Our difficult child just got here to have a visit with her son. That's fine. I started telling her about these medical issue's and the dr. visits I have taken HER son to, that she didn't even ask what was wrong. She knew he was at the Dr. yesterday and today and didn't bother to ask. As I'm telling her about the visits, she starts texting someone! :grrr: I stopped talking and she says, "go ahead, I can still listen. :grrr: I told her no, finish, her texting is distracting to me. She laughs. As soon as I finish telling her everything which was pretty quick really, she tells her son, I need to go outside and make a phone call. I cracked the door so I could listen. Right away she says.. Aiden has an enlarged heart muscle. :grrr::grrr: Everything is about her or what attention / sympathy she can garner for herself. Evil me, I had something on the line outside, walked right past her and said loud enough for the other person to hear, I didn't say he DID have an enlarged heart muscle, it's something they are going to look at. She then says, I didn't say that. Okay, right. I still see her as so self centered. Texting while I'm talking, running to make a phone call right away. We just had a little (ha!) talk. She seems to think her son is acting out because of his chaotic life, just what do you expect? Well yes, he has had a chaotic life. I reminded her that his behavior is exactly what we experienced with her and she most definitely did not have a chaotic life. What would she do differently to help him out? She absolutely would not do ANYTHING like I did for sure. She would BEND. She would homeschool and allow him to be himself. I so worry for this child. [/QUOTE]
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